Hello! For a long time I was wondering if I should share this here and I hope someone will give me adequate advice, because I no longer know what to think. I am a 22 year old girl, I have cystic fibrosis, I think it is important to note it. I have been in a relationship with a 26-year-old boy for 5 years. Many things have happened in our relationship. We fought a lot, I wanted to end this relationship, but my friend loves me very much. The other thing is that I like a colleague of mine from Unito, I constantly think only of him. He knows nothing about my feelings. I'm afraid to tell him how I perceive him, isn't it something more, and I don't think I have the right to share my feelings with someone else, since I have a friend and it's a long-term relationship, or at least for me it is. I just don't stop thinking about him, I'm always obsessed. Seeing him at a lecture, I literally can't take my eyes off him ... My question is, how do I know if I like the set or not, how do I ask him in some circumvented and indirect way if he has feelings for me, so that I don't break my friendship with him, because I will be even worse, if I have no contact with him? I apologize for the spelling mistakes.
1 purpdrank answered
Chick, you break up with your boyfriend first, and then you start acting with the other one. Without that, as far as I understand, you don't care about your friend at all and you are not ok with him.