Hello! I want to share my story because I keep thinking and tormenting myself! I'm 16 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months! Things happened in a rather strange way between us! We used to be very good friends - we were a great company! I had one that I knew even when I met my boyfriend! When we met, we all started going out together - me, my boyfriend (who was just a friend to me at the time, we didn't even know each other much) and my friend I knew before I met my boyfriend! This friend and I respected each other a lot, we constantly wrote to each other on Facebook, we both went out, holding hands, drooling - everyone thought there was something between us, I don't know if that's the case, then I said it wasn't true and that there was nothing !! I've been getting very close to my friend lately, (who later became my boyfriend) and this started to annoy my friend a lot! We were constantly arguing, we were like a couple like we never really were! He was angry and annoyed that I got along a lot with my boyfriend! And so on February 14, 2012 we had gathered the girls and the boys had also gathered! It was that night that I learned things about myself that he was saying about me, that I was very angry about! I understood them from my future boyfriend, then he was my best friend of the boys! When I found out what he was saying, we quarreled and didn't greet each other for months! And these 2 boys - "my boyfriend" and my future boyfriend were very good friends, they grew up together! And since then they haven't talked to each other ... and just these days, when we quarreled, my friend told me everything and was by my side .. and so later things happened that from my best friend, he became my boyfriend! But things are quite complicated - my friend is always happy when he finds out that my boyfriend and I have quarreled, he is constantly trying in some way, through other people, to quarrel with us! I love my boyfriend, but I don't stop thinking about my FRIEND, I even dreamed of him! All these scandals with my boyfriend are all because of my boyfriend or a couple in our company - for NONSENSE! Exactly on my birthday we had a fierce fight over my friend's old text messages! I love him, and I think about the other ... Is this normal Please help me, I feel guilty! :( through other people to scold us! I love my boyfriend, but I don't stop thinking about my FRIEND, I even dreamed of him! All these scandals with my boyfriend are all because of my boyfriend or a couple in our company - for NONSENSE! Exactly on my birthday we had a fierce fight over my friend's old text messages! I love him, and I think about the other ... Is this normal? Please help me, I feel guilty! :( through other people to scold us! I love my boyfriend, but I don't stop thinking about my FRIEND, I even dreamed of him! All these scandals with my boyfriend are all because of my boyfriend or a couple in our company - for NONSENSE! Exactly on my birthday we had a fierce fight over old text messages from my friend! I love him, and I think of the other ... Is this normal? Please help me, I feel guilty! :(
1 trenttravis answered
I think you should talk to your boyfriend seriously and tell him that it's better to get closer to his best friend again, because that's how you look guilty of having a fight. I advise you to talk to "your friend" as well. Better a poor horse than no horse at all. Get along somehow. It will not happen by itself.