Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl. and I'm looking for advice. In short, I have a friend from Bulgaria who is 35 years old, we met on the Internet, he lives in a neighborhood that is not close to mine and that's why we see each other less often, but we hear each other every day on Skype and we are always we talk when we have free time. However, before I met him, I had a relationship with a man who is Bulgarian, but lives in the state of California, we also got along with him, he is quite intelligent and quite hardworking, now I keep in touch with the one from abroad and he says that is very much in love with me and wants us to get married and I go to him ..... he is ideal for a husband because he is enterprising and responsible, as well as quite serious in every way .... However, I love this one from Sofia, he is my first love, but I can say that he is lazy, he has been out of work for a long time, he says, that he searches but is a fact all this time that he wastes sitting in front of the computer, otherwise he is good in character, not very accurate, but quite caring, intelligent and polite. I am forced to choose between the possibility of a better life outside the country, or to choose to stay here in Bulgaria and be happy with HIM again, but it is also a fact that I am not sure if he cares for me, never he said he loved me, he only told me that I was very close to him, I don't know if he doesn't accept me only as a girlfriend he has sex with, I love him more than anyone else, but I'm afraid I'm wrong if stayed here and then he dumped me and left me devastated. HELP ME! I am forced to choose between the possibility of a better life outside the country, or to choose to stay here in Bulgaria and be happy with HIM again, but it is also a fact that I am not sure if he cares for me, never he said he loved me, he only told me that I was very close to him, I don't know if he doesn't accept me only as a girlfriend he has sex with, I love him more than anyone else, but I'm afraid I'm wrong if stayed here and then he dumped me and left me devastated. HELP ME! I am forced to choose between the possibility of a better life outside the country, or to choose to stay here in Bulgaria and be happy with HIM again, but it is also a fact that I am not sure if he cares for me, never he said he loved me, he only told me that I was very close to him, I don't know if he doesn't accept me only as a girlfriend he has sex with, I love him more than anyone else, but I'm afraid I'm wrong if stayed here and then he dumped me and left me devastated. HELP ME! if I stay here and then he dumps me and I'm ruined. HELP ME! if I stay here and then he dumps me and I'm ruined. HELP ME!
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That's what I think, darling - he never told you that he loved you, but let him be lazy and not very accurate. Think, you have to choose between security and love, or a choice between security and ........... uncertainty. Hardly with the one from Sofia, your life will be paradise! Bad, but with more experience than you, I would just say - MARRIAGE KILLS LOVE, so don't be fooled that if you love him now, you will always love him, or it will only happen if you don't get married, I don't know if you He talked about marriage, I guess not. And with the one from America there is no 100% certainty, if you are not ready for that, wait, think well, analyze, life is in front of you, so you are only 20 years old. I wish you luck and a lot of love!