It's your fault, though, why did you give birth to him when you weren't sure of your feelings?
I dream of finding that special man, whom I would bravely call "soul mate" and "love," and grow old together. Even if we fight sometimes, let's forget quickly and never, and for nothing in the world, we're not going to get our minds apart.
To love each other literally, to extinguish each other.
Dreams, dreams...
The thrill disappeared before you got pregnant and gave birth - you wrote it yourself.
All of you in this sentence is the one in the world.
Even then, things didn't work out, but you made the decision to stay together, that you could have a child. I am of the opinion that one should live with the consequences of the decisions he makes. So... You forget the and look at your kid. Otherwise, you will put to the test three lives - your own, your husband and your child. Put your mind on it.
I think everyone wants chills, but the thrill is up to the old days. I understand. We're with two kids, it's just like that. The thrill is only at the beginning. Think of others, sometimes.
It's just postpartum depression. You want to be a different guy than your husband. And that's what's going to happen. Let the little kid grow up. And when you leave, you won't stop until you get caught.
Yes, so there was no thrill before you got pregnant, but you decided to give birth first and then ask for a new thrill. Unfortunately, I suspect your whole problem is that there's no way. Don't worry, he'il go to the garden and shine in the sun on your street. And you don't need any courage, it's enough when you're paid attention to sit and not resist. That's what you do, you sit with someone you don't love, you give birth to them, no resistance. Besides, then you can say , "but it happened, I didn't do anything." Absolutely true. There's no courage, and there's no way, well done, Mother! No, because you have a family, not because you have a child, and you don't have the guts, and you don't have the guts... Again (only) I suspect that by the way you mean I don't mean I don't have time.
At times like this, I understand misogynists. And I'm a woman. To create a life with someone who is with you, not because he loves you, but because, (I suspect) he is afraid and there is no way. And put your baby to sleep with thoughts of new thrills...
There is no greater insult than a common denominator with such a man. Any "all women" in this subject will be untenable and I ask the gentlemen to refrain from it.
Does anyone else notice the trend in any such topic to start with "I have a very GOOD man, but...."
And at the other pole we have "He's acting like a doormat with me, but..."
It's Bratan.
She's only had a child for six months, and she's already wanted something new, you want to put up your rags, I don't know if you understand me, give yourself all to that kid, you're not a woman anymore, but mom.
Why the hell are you making kids without love that you can't watch and ruining their lives? Unconscious plasmods, they should not multiply at all!
It's disgusting. She married so she wasn't alone, gave birth to tie the pro-Vader, and it's already itching her... for someone else. When you want a new thrill, leave your husband and go as far as you want to go with whoever you want.
Men who'il you all you want.
I say that we people think of others, whether it's just because we're stupid, how many people think of someone else during sex? And men don't want anything else if they fall for it if they'd say no?
If a man took her for granted, it's normal for a man to think that. Marriage is not flowers and roses after all, and our love does not last a lifetime, it is just something has to hold the marriage.
But how did you all attack her, if you don't look at others and you don't want something, but the other one has to be black...
12, 14, 15, 16 Are pretty straight. I couldn't have said it :).
Well, that's why I'm not going to get married and start a family, and a good person to be and help and be caring, she wants a thrill with another bacs :D Happy Valentine's Day
17, do you distinguish between "just because we're stupid" and "I always want something new, a new thrill"?
Who loves, and doesn't get a new thrill, believe me. Yes, I know they don't love them en masse now, even though they're together, but that doesn't mean it's normal.
19, just because the site only writes dissetted doesn't mean that everyone is.
20 A lot of people just think, without action, there may not be a specific person, just a desire for someone to love you, a bit like in the flmies. How long have you been with the particular one you love?
Just to say, in 26 years, I've only been with three people. I haven't cheated on me for six years since I've been in a relationship. And you condemned me for some thoughts. Which 26-year-old was only 3? You above writers must have never seen the world leads nepite haha
If you want a new thrill so badly, why don't you just get a divorce and look for it? I do not see a problem. But if you want the wolf to be a sit and the lamb whole, it's a problem.
Like Brattan, I noticed another trend. Why does ajba my strip have over 1,000 readings and history, Hen without a rooster, about 300. I wonder why you're attracted to my theme You just like seeing just like my story to spit on a person without knowing. And why did you call me a whore when I didn't actually cheat?
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25, okay, I'm asking you again - what's stopping you? Get divorced and act.
And as far as I know, the only thing that stops you from cheating on him is that you don't have the guts, "no, and there's no way" and it suggests that you haven't even found someone to cheat on him with, but you still wish you could. I don't think you love this guy, that's the whole thing. The best thing you can do is break up with him so you don't lose his life with a woman who doesn't care about him. So you can find the right one and be happy. Hypotheses of the genus "the child will suffer" are stupid, because the child will suffer the most in a family without love and naturally - quarrels.
I was only interested in why you did it when the thrill disappeared before you got pregnant?!? I'm increasingly convinced that people are suffering, sometimes all their lives, just because they didn't think when they needed to.
Success!
Take care of your child. Right now, it should be your number one priority!
Well, she'd be normal, after, for example, 10 or 15 years of marriage and two, three grown-up children. It's not normal.
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Either you didn't really love your husband, or you're immature enough to think in that stupid way. The thrill was missing. It's up to time. Then he gives way to friendship, concern, respect, etc. Now you have more important things to come than sex. To raise, raise and make your child a person!The task is of increased difficulty. The little man squeezes both physically and mentally and emotionally. Family life is not easy, and at its core are compromises. Don't think so superficially and selfishly. If you don't love your husband, why did you give him a baby? A normal woman doesn't give birth to a child from a man because he's good. There are a lot of good people. She doesn't marry a man because he's good. Is the uniformness falling for you, or your lack of feelings for your husband? Without love in the soul, you do not live with someone, if so, make the decision from now on and do not waste their time. If you just lack the thrill, things go the other way. It's only a matter of time before someone turns your head and then just don't write." I'm telling you without a bad feeling. And to protect you! I'm your set. There's no room for in your head!
"I don't have the guts to do it, and there's no way"
"I didn't really cheat"
I wish you had who and how, without getting out...
Infidelity isn't between the legs, it's in the head. Faida, you didn't really do it when you're squeezing and you're not doing it just because you can't.
Marriage isn't a lifelong thrill. It's only at the beginning, then other things shift.
If you haven't figured it out for 26 years, you've got some gaps in maturation, and that's where it all comes from.
I would never divorce. I love my husband, and I don't plan on embarrassing myself in front of family and friends. Sesca has nothing to do with love
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. You'il find who in the park. I just have a little flirting and you're ready when you, and then you're done again.
Authoring from thoughts to action the road is short. Just because you haven't cheated at the moment and that you only slept with three doesn't matter. You've already decided to do it anyway. I'm sure just the thought of spending your life with a man makes you crazy. Don't worry, your hour will come. Men ready to foreign brides as much as you want.
But if you knew it wasn't going to get out, you'd cheat.
It's not nice what you're going to do. You said it yourself, he's a good man, and I guess he's a father. You can't miss it. Listen to us.
Try to sexually reinvent your partner. With a small child, it's hard, I know, but the good news is that it won't be a lifetime of messy baby. Do your best once a week to go out for 2-3 hours just the two of them in the evening. Get a grandma to sit there to watch it. If there is no possibility, then when you fall asleep organize something special at home. At least once a week, you should be just the two of you for a few hours. When he grows up a little more, just go somewhere on a short break. Uniformity kills you, there's no sex, you're normally going to want change. You're incorrectly transferring the demand for change and the thirst for intimacy to a new partner. You just think that's the problem. If you've had nice sex at all, even before giving birth, it's not your partner's problem. Find time to pay attention, pamper yourself, and then enjoy yourself intimately with your maj. Be active. Sometimes men experience difficulties after childbirth, too. And it's stress for them. And something else - sex after childbirth is much nicer and quality. I mean, just like your body's recovered. If you need to force the first time, the appetite comes with eating, people said. Try to rebuild your sex life with your husband and expect a much deeper and nicer sex that has nothing to do with pale teenage experiences.
You're brutal, author, and it's got nowhere to go. What kind of vocabulary from a woman who didn't see it for those who don't agree with you. I made sure you weren't cheating just because no one wanted you. And i guess you're just going to be left with your head.
41 you're going to tell me no one wanted to. Would my husband have been with me? In 6 years I have had many opportunities
For your information. And how do I react to your words like, plasmods, is that a nice vocabulary? Whatever knocked on the door, so measure your words. Thank you to those who understood me.
But women like you don't deserve to wear the title of "woman."
It's perfectly normal in this tense world that the lack of sex makes you sick and mentally and physically if you want to see each other, and if we like to see each other in secret without interfering with your marriage, I'm 25 if you decide to exchange contact?
43, being a woman is not a title, we are not trophies and we are not even treated as trophies, but more often as junk. I wouldn't judge the author rashly.
If you shared here with the intent of sympathy or advice, you were wrong. The Bulgarian knows what spit is and how to use it.
My husband and I have been together for seven years. Until months ago, I never thought about cheating on him. But he pushed me into someone else's hands himself. Sex wasn't important, the holidays and they, her attention, and eventually it turned me into a slug and a babysitter. That's the way it is with all men, when they make you a child, there's no moving. You're already committed to everything, and there's usually no help from anywhere. Know.
But your child is very small. It's not OK to think about things like that now, because you have to raise it. Sex with someone else will come with time, relax. It's just that men stop trying, and sometimes even while you're wiping vomit from the child's clothes, he wipes his sperm off someone's face..
Infidelity doesn't have to be the finale of marriage. Not unless she finds out about her. Be smart and don't risk ruining your life. You hear the males here, they don't look at other people's children, especially the bachelors. And I know men who get divorced, and those with three kids... Every train has passengers. But you shouldn't be risked.
I feel as sorry for a bullied soul like the one on the subject of sexless marriage. It's tolerant. I'm going to tolerate the person I've been living with for months and years to deprive me of attention and sex for no physiological or healthy reason. Our lives are full of stress and hardship, and to have one pleasure ( not drinking, not beating, and still not wandering ) and giving up... is sorry. You're screaming about infidelity. So, author. The smart one.
Bravo 43, you're a real Bulgarian woman. Well, how do you tell me to stay single when there are women like that? I'd grab you right now like a hammock feathered stove.
Exactly 43! She just hit the bottom by announcing how many men she slept with as if she had taken the Nobel Prize, and she started talking to her, and finally, of all things, she was the one who was not a wanted woman, and she started explaining how it wasn't true and they wanted her very much...
And illiterate to infinity, I think it's more important than sex, that without her husband she's going to starve.
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You should have used a lady or something...
Big moralists, a great miracle. The girl says she's thinking about something, not that she did it or she's going to do it. I have an older child, but even when he was a baby, I wanted something out of character outside of family life, but it never got there, and there were willing ones. It's normal for the brain to want a change, because as good as it is to have a family, it's not everything in this world. Half the men who write here sit and secretly beat the man... on someone's profile, but that the girl writes about something immediately accepted as a great sinner. Come on, enough with this false morality. Author, indulge in your thoughts, and you'il figure out how far you're going to go in life in the future. Don't listen to anyone, because wings won't put it on, because you've been in front of the stove all your life.
43 to 45:
If you're being treated like crap, you probably admitted it.
I don't have that kind of thing. Men behave the way you let them.
I'm young still, but I've encountered an awful lot of junk among men, and I've learned a very important rule: after the second mistake- instant kick and door. Some of the first... Some mistakes are unforgivable.
And to all who have said nice words for me - thank you!
A whore is a whore at heart, whether it's 3 or 103th anyway.
51 - what a girl, she is a married woman and mother with a child. Except for half a year she hasn't realized it yet, as opposed to her thrills and what she wants between her legs. And of course it's the husband's fault that he didn't take him to breastfeed and babysit, or he didn't have enough money to hire her servants, while madame indulged in thrills and entertainment.
No 46 is ready to issue a teme guide on how to cheat on our men.
Then you wonder why men call women c.k.a. You.
Come on, the advice of the experienced ur*s sleeps to the tammon toddler. AGITATION, AGITATION...
We'll read you later in the themes of "dumped wives by their lovers," and you'll start whining "my husband is very good and caring, but I cheated on him..."
Yes, they and men think of other women, relax, and not cheat the man, think at least there are . Don't put on your heart what they say here. And it is true that when a man takes a woman , she forgets to show her that she is significant . Besides, men can cheat, it's ugly for women.
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