Hello! I am a 22 year old girl. I had a birthday yesterday, but I wasn't happy at all. We didn't celebrate, or at least I didn't take it as a holiday, the day itself was terrible. The day before my birthday my mother insisted that we buy or make a cake, but we quarreled and we didn't make it, she started insulting me, she played-made the cake but I won't even try it, she insulted me with rude words. In general, I would not celebrate, but I was excited, it's still a holiday, but my mother ruined everything with this cake scandal ... in general, when someone spoils your mood and the most wonderful cake to make or buy is still this or at least about me. The next day on my birthday she congratulated me coldly, I thanked her and that's it. Make lunch as usual and that's it. Here's an example of how a mother can ruin her child's holiday because of a cake ... she said, that I would have remembered this birthday and any such insults .. I apologize if there are spelling or punctuation errors. I just wanted to share ... I hope the moderators publish my story.