The topic is old, but I have a similar case in my family ... My brother - a smart boy, hardworking, ambitious, makes good money, modest, does not like to be pampered. As children we did not have our great potential and we got used to not spending too much. Abe is a man talking. He was caught years ago with a cobra. I forced myself to like her, my daughter-in-law would be fine, to make friends with her, but just something inside gnawed at me for her. After a 4-year relationship, he began to withdraw from her, did not talk much about her. My mother and I ask him, "When will S. come?" He muttered something and locked himself in his room. I think he had found another girl ... to be honest, I was very happy. You watch him always cheerful, boiling with energy, taking off some love songs, fussing in the bathroom more than normal ... And as I expected him to leave the cobra, one day he comes with her, she shines all over: We will get married - he shouts! S. is expecting a child. We were happy what to do, this is a child, but my heart sank. Do you know how a sister loves a brother and how she can know when something is wrong with him? And a doubt began to bite me that she was not pregnant at all, but she felt that she was losing him and was looking to tie him up. I started talking to him about it ... I was right then. I heard the bitch talk about it once, I told my brother right away, but in the meantime the child had risen, he is a responsible person - get married! Now they are far from us, she deliberately does not allow him to communicate much with us, we have hated her. His daughter is very cute, she is my niece - I adore her. But ... her mother! I don't know what will come out of all this, but I haven't seen him whistle again. Now he walks anxiously, his face gray, drunk somehow. My mother and I are very worried about him, but we are silent ... not to turn against us. I feel like grabbing this one of his and suffocating her. And he only spends his money. BGN 100 each. on the way out, supposedly this, that, a cafe, lunch, some make-up on her, something on the child and they leave. And he trembles from morning to night, his job is not easy, he is responsible, his tension is super high, she uses it, but the fool has no one to open his eyes. So ... what do I think about such women - I despise them!
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This trick of tying men through pregnancy is the lowest way women use ... namely, these are "girls" who have no other way to keep a man ... they are absolute fools and complexes. I know a few such "girls" and I honestly say ... they answer me ... They are pathetic. As a woman, I am firmly against using a child just to entangle your basket ... if you understand me.