I Get Depressed

   Hello I want to tell you to give it in a bond, which should remain and be in your life will remain, which may not be better not to have it, he said that they are trying to abuse your kindness. Draw an email where are you from?

   Look how many years I was in such a state, but I came out of this painful hole ... and I realized that the only person I can blame for this is myself! Do you think that only you are used in the case ..? I trusted a man for a long time and I knew he cared about me, but one day came when this man turned his back on me and it was the most catastrophic day of my life and from then on I realized that this man was me. used and did not give five money for me .. and what is the lesson - do not trust people, so as not to be crushed later! It's really hard nowadays to find a real friend .. it's also hard to find the boy / girl you've always dreamed of .. but do you expect everything to be so easy and in one fell swoop everything will work out - my no, it takes time and patience for everything!

   You and I have a similar story and problems ... it seems that some people are meant to be alone.

   Young man, you are not depressed, you are overwhelmed by melancholy, mental anguish, but it is not depression. When you are depressed, there is no logical thinking (and you think), a person does not care about friends at all, even life is thought of anxiously, not accidentally, in such states it leads to suicide. Calm down, you are still thinking soberly and through self-suggestion you can get out of your uncomfortable state on your own. As you look in your own eyes, so you look in other people's, so do not think ugly, but give yourself vitality and confidence, then others will appreciate you properly. You are right that there are few people you can trust, but even as a hermit you do not live. Head up, and your luck will come out.

   Look ahead and whistle. Sooner or later you will find love. Just don't miss it. And friends - fuck them. 3/4 of them are nothing more than users. And I how many goodies, services, etc. I did and in return what? Spitting, playing angry for nonsense and similar nonsense. I will give just one example - a few years ago, in the place where I worked, I had very strong positions on the upper floors. At the same time, a "friend" of mine lost his daughter. So, aman-zaman, let me arrange the girl. He was educated, very hardworking, etc. Anyway. I talked to the right person, they hired her literally from today to tomorrow. And where I worked, you don't go in like that. In other words, you don't enter at all. Everything is OK. The "friend" in question gave a bottle of drink and a box of candy to take to that man, as I did. After a while for an insignificant remark I said in front of people, quoting the "friend" in question (which later came out the truth), he refused to communicate with me, did not sit at the same table with me and constantly slandered people in my address. , as well as I heard that I had taken BGN 5,000 from him to settle his daughter. Laughter in the hall. I didn't ask him for a penny. Below my dignity is this thing. So, in general, instead of kissing my feet all my life, for which I literally gave the bread in the hands of his daughter, he plays it on a pinched diva. Honestly, I was very upset, but over time I screwed up and this man ceased to exist for me, even though I see him every day. It's like air. And, by the way, after he started slandering and playing him in a rage, as I had arranged for the girl, so with one phone I could remove it, but why? Should I fall to the level of the simpletons? No, let him live and let him be sick all his life. These things are being watched. There are dozens more cases like this, but it won't be enough for me to describe them all day. I have stopped doing ANY services to anyone. Even if he crawls on his stomach in front of me, I jump over him and continue. Ah, I can safely say that my best friend is my wife. She would never betray me as I betrayed her, she would never think bad of me as I would of her. I wish you from the bottom of my heart to find the close person you can count on 100%. I have stopped doing ANY services to anyone. Even if he crawls on his stomach in front of me, I jump over him and continue. Ah, I can safely say that my best friend is my wife. She would never betray me as I betrayed her, she would never think bad of me as I would of her. I wholeheartedly wish you to find the close person you can count on 100%. I have stopped doing ANY services to anyone. Even if he crawls on his stomach in front of me, I jump over him and continue. Ah, I can safely say that my best friend is my wife. She would never betray me as I betrayed her, she would never think bad of me as I would of her. I wholeheartedly wish you to find the close person you can count on 100%.

   Develop and improve your skills! If you do not have a GOAL - a decent (well paid) job - try to find one. To be more confident. When a person radiates confidence, people RESPECT him! With the women around you, make sure you have one thing in mind, but still continue to be nice to them (don't change 180 degrees). Don't set a goal this year or next to find a girlfriend. This is something that happens by itself. Some people meet their great love at the age of 17, and others only at the age of 37 .. for example. In time, your lady will appear. Try to come to terms with the fact that not everyone will "enjoy" you, as I guess you "don't enjoy" everyone (it's not healthy to "enjoy" someone just because you're not lonely). Try to rely mainly on yourself. To help "friends", listen to what your inner voice tells you when someone asks you for help. If it's for something small and at the same time this person doesn't treat you well, just cut it off (carefully - without anger or nervousness). If you have the opportunity, change the environment. Start appreciating your positive qualities more. Start forgiving yourself for your negatives if you can't change them. Be optimistic, but always stand firmly on the ground. Woman, 26 years old but always stand firmly on the ground. Woman, 26 years old but always stand firmly on the ground. Woman, 26 years old

   From the author: Thank you for the advice and stories you gave me, not that they help me with anything but still thank you. It's just that in the few years I've lived, I've experienced many unpleasant moments and that's why I accept things inside and it's all in me. I really fell into melancholy, there are moments when I have no desire for absolutely nothing, no enthusiasm and desire for activity. I hope to find the woman I am happy with, I don't know what the problem is with women, but I haven't had a girlfriend for a long time, and there are no interested people. Maybe I should seek help from a specialist, but even if there was a person to pull me out of the hole in which I fall deeper and deeper with each passing day, I would be saved. And I will not commit suicide because I do not have such courage.

   Look at things a little more positively. I'm stuck in trouble here, and I have no desire for anything but to go to bed and sleep, and sleep, and sleep ... However, I'm trying to get out of this situation, for myself and the people who I love. Maybe the difference is that I have a friend with whom I share everything who, like me, is in trouble and this complicates things even more, I am lucky that he is patient, because because of this melancholy I have fallen into, I am sometimes disgusting. And this is one of the reasons why I try to change - I don't want to lose him and my family. The truth is that in such a situation, in my opinion, you will have to rely mostly on yourself. Set goals - whether it's to develop in work or study (maybe you're still a student), it doesn't matter. Go out with people even if you don't consider them best friends. Humans are social beings and we need contacts with other people. Just change the situation, don't shut up. And love will come, don't think so much. I met my friend quite by accident - I went out with a close friend for a beer, I had no makeup, just a T-shirt, jeans and my dirty sneakers and that's how we met, met and fell in love. Believe me, I didn't expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24 Humans are social beings and we need contacts with other people. Just change the situation, don't shut up. And love will come, don't think so much. I met my friend quite by accident - I went out with a close friend for a beer, I had no makeup, just a T-shirt, jeans and my dirty sneakers and that's how we met, met and fell in love. Believe me, I didn't expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24 Humans are social beings and we need contacts with other people. Just change the situation, don't shut up. And love will come, don't think so much. I met my friend quite by accident - I went out with a close friend for a beer, I had no makeup, just a T-shirt, jeans and my dirty sneakers and that's how we met, met and fell in love. Believe me, I didn't expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24 And love will come, don't think so much. I met my friend quite by accident - I went out with a close friend for a beer, I had no makeup, just a T-shirt, jeans and my dirty sneakers and that's how we met, met and fell in love. Believe me, I didn't expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24 And love will come, don't think so much. I met my friend quite by accident - I went out with a close friend for a beer, I had no makeup, just a T-shirt, jeans and my dirty sneakers and that's how we met, met and fell in love. Believe me, I did not expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24 we met and fell in love. Believe me, I didn't expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24 we met and fell in love. Believe me, I didn't expect to meet him that day at all, that was my last thought. And since then we have been inseparable. Be patient and positive, try to feel good for now, other people as friends and love will come alone. There is also the fact that when you are positive, confident and confident, people feel this, as well as when you are negative and depressed, and this repulses them. Success! F24

   Young people, I WAS in your situation and I understand very well what condition you are in, so I want to give advice for a faster way out of the hellish mental quagmire. It is very easy to say, take matters into your own hands and you will get out of the problem. I know how difficult this is because I have been through it. I had the feeling that there was no way out, that no one could understand me, but in practice it turned out that there was salvation. You will solve the problems of life that are a burden to you only with perseverance, but for the torments of the soul, you will need the help of a specialist. I went to all sorts of doctors, I also went to psychiatrists, the situation got worse, they prescribed me drugs that turned me into a rag. I preferred the mild state, to be tormented by melancholy but to be able to think. My work was very busy and I had a constant headache. I went to a neurologist and told him about my unbearable condition, I also told him about melancholy, he prescribed me a very mild antidepressant "Deanxide", some small pink pills (they call them the pills of happiness). These pills increase, rather cause the formation of Serotonin in the body (which is the hormone of happiness), which is released from the brain. So for a few months, I escaped the swamp. Tip-go to a neurologist (not a psychiatrist) and soon cheerful mood.

   Don't get depressed, but benefit from it. Find a hobby. I'm 25 too, I'm beautiful and I just don't meet my man to fall in love with. On the flip side, I had an argument with a close friend, lost a loved one, and felt alone. But ... I will not be alone! :) I wish you to meet her soon! :)

   People fall into such a depression, but this period, like everything else, will pass with time. The thing you need is good motivation to get out of this period faster. Think positively and don't strain yourself with unnecessary and unnecessary things ... More smiles and head up and that will pass, as long as you don't give in to it and let go of this type of emotions.

   What are your "difficult moments" dude? You dramatize very well. With this use you sound like a woman ... Tighten her up! If you like them a little, you are obviously not a reference model from a Turkish TV series. Find an abnormal friend and go together to train her fitness, some martial arts - to see what a softie you are. And stop giving!

   Look, my friend, I often get melancholy, but that's not so bad. You just rethink your life from time to time. The most important thing is to look at things positively and not think about the negatives. True love and true friends are hard to find, but there are, rest assured. It is true that there are many users, but let them be alive and healthy, the important thing is not to put it to heart. For example, about a year ago I realized that my best friend, with whom I have known for 8-9 years (now we are 30) and we were constantly together, used me. I didn't even use it exactly, I was kind of comfortable with it. And I did not offend him in any way, I even helped him start his first job in the company where I worked, and this became his profession. I didn't do much and it didn't cost me anything, nor do I regret helping him.