Hello everyone ... At the age of 22 I have had a friend for almost 3 years, he is 23, we are coming to each other, we are our first serious relationship and our first love. I never cheated on him, ever. The first two were great ... here for 8 months things are just going badly. At the beginning of our relationship, I was the one who was sulking, I was the one who was behaving badly, and that's when things went. When I started being nice and everything turned around. We came back from England and he decided to separate for a while ... and then I didn't believe ... 1 week passed in which we didn't hear from each other, and then I decided to call, but he didn't pick me up. And so for two whole months I go to them every day, cry for him, I pray to him just to see you, but he doesn't. I ask him if there is another one and if so, let everyone tell me on their way - but he swore to me to the last, that it was just me and that he loved me, I had just suffocated him a lot. And so 2 months passed in which I even begged him to hug me because I needed him. We got along and so I understand that during these 2 months from time to time he saw another and her and said that whatever I did I would forgive him because I loved him very much. He slept with her at least 10 times, gave flowers as gifts. After I found out, I freaked out because he had been with her while he was with us since we were fine, and I left ... 10 days passed and he didn't even ask me to apologize ... even to ask how I was. I learned from a mutual friend that he cried for me and told him that he really loved me. And so I looked for him again, swallowed everything just because I hoped that someday everything might be the same again. When we recovered, he cried and told me that he was the biggest fool to behave like that and even kissed my hands and feet to thank me for not leaving him. It's been 6 months since then and he started telling me that I suffocated him again, that I kept him very short, that he wasn't married to me, that he lived now. Ever since we broke up in the summer and he deleted all the photos with me from all the sites, and before I was everywhere and under the photos it was written 'I love you'. It's not enough that he doesn't have a single photo with me, but he doesn't even add me to his friends ... and when I go to them, everything stops ... Skype, Facebook. However, I caught his Skype password and for 5 days I read what he writes to himself and what he always hides from me and here everything shone ... 3 days ago he told me that they would gather in a man's way and he called me in the evening from there and I called him if there were any girls and he called not only there are no boys, I'm ok too ... and now, however, his friends are writing .. fuck that one I left with you ... she pressed you so much and he wrote abe don't bother me, I'm not. And today one of his wrote to him that the person in question was interested in him. And this one of his shouts "but I have a lot of fun with you and your chick, you have a serious girlfriend" and my friend writes to him ... "I don't want you to tell the girl in question that I have a girlfriend because things are not going well with my girlfriend and I don't want the person in question to know "..... then I called him a while ago and I told him" I made enough compromises with myself because of you, go check yourself and I closed .... tell me dear people how to do and did I do the right thing. I want this wheel to turn and for him to suffer for me as I have for him for 8 months. Don't judge me because I'm very good, I love him very much and I always thought that he would be as before, but obviously it's not just the 1st to try .... Help me ... who has passed to me say such men are aware of their mistakes ... I do not know tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv go check yourself and I closed .... tell me dear people how to do and did I do the right thing. I want this wheel to turn and for him to suffer for me as I have for him for 8 months. Don't judge me because I'm very good, I love him very much and I always thought that he would be as before, but obviously it's not just the 1st to try .... Help me ... who has passed to me say such men are aware of their mistakes ... I do not know tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv who has come to tell me whether such men are aware of their mistakes ... I don't know, tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv who has come to tell me whether such men are aware of their mistakes ... I don't know, tell me your experience. Sincerely ..... Plovdiv
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Leave it and move on! Nobody says it will be easy, but I think that even if he regrets his mistake again, it will take some time and he will repeat it. I don't think there's any point in fighting for this lost cause.