Hello dear readers! A year and a half ago, I met a man ... and I fell in love with him at first sight. The problem was that there were a hell of a lot of obstacles between us, but that wasn't the main problem. They could be overcome if my love was shared, but unfortunately it was not. There was nothing between us, just a flirtation with a single goal on his part (later mine), but it could not happen because thousands of kilometers separate us. I was so in love and obsessed with him that I was ready to sleep with him one day ... just to be with him. I loved him so much, I wanted him and I WANTED that at times I was just caught by the crazy people and I was furious because I didn't know what he was doing now ... if some babe wasn't keeping him company ... For some it's unclear how there are couples who fall in love through internet, photo, video ... etc, but in my opinion such love is entirely possible! Not to mention that already 90% of dating is done through the Internet. That aside now ... Let me take you back to my story ... I was really obsessed with this man. I was hoping to see you someday and have a great time ... and he would fall in love with me, and even if he didn't, I just wanted to be with him ... I wanted to suffer for him, I didn't want to to forget him. I preferred to suffer, but to be constantly in my thoughts. Unfortunately, there was nothing more than a flirtation and a sex chat between us ... I was another one for him, and he was the only one for me. He is not handsome, I do not like "handsome". He is usually a boy, he is very charming and he has big green eyes, which I adored. I suffered, I suffered ... and after a year and a half I took it that I overcame it. I don't feel anything anymore, like I've never fallen in love. I don't miss him anymore, I don't even remember many of our conversations. Now I'm not even looking for a relationship, I've forgotten what it's like to be in love. He was my type of man, and he's not anymore, I don't even have a certain type of man that I like ... he was definitely me until recently and I constantly compared him to other men. ... I don't even know what I like now ... I'm completely indifferent to him, after all! Through my story I want to tell everyone who finds it impossible to forget their love - people, let time do its job! And most of all, it's up to you how fast it will do! Don't be as naive as I am, no matter how much you're in love, if it doesn't make sense - don't try to give it to him. Don't go deeper, you will suffer more, it is pointless ... and life is too short! I wish all of you to meet the true love as soon as possible and to share it, and be very happy! Good night!
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I was happy to read this story, it reminded me a bit of mine :)) I loved a man unhappily for 4 years. We had known each other for 6 years, the first year of our acquaintance he had some feelings for me ... just when I didn't feel anything for him. Later the opposite happened, I love him, he doesn't love me. At one time he found out from others about my feelings for him and did not accept him very well, simply because I was not very beautiful and I was not one of the smartest / according to his ideas /. I was shaking, crying for him, all this every day. I wanted to kill myself, because in the end, in the last year I liked him, he stopped paying me ANY attention - he didn't greet me, he didn't look at me, even though we had known each other for so long. The last year was the worst, because I was crazy, I was having nervous breakdowns - I was screaming like crazy, I cried all day, no matter if I was outside, at home, throwing objects ... I thought I would never forget that the one I could like more than him must be almost a god. Well, I saw him once with some of his friends. There was a boy who caught my eye the most. I had a very strange feeling when I saw it, but I didn't pay attention to the feeling. After a week or two, I started looking at him more and more often, but again I didn't pay attention, I kept crying about the other one. It took 5-6 months and I already felt like thinking about him all day, until I finally realized that I like him much more than the other. I didn't know him, but they soon introduced me to him :)). There are no impossible things, this incident proved it. You're right that time heals everything :), until a few months ago I thought it was complete nonsense, but I was already convinced that everything was overcome with time. I wish everyone a very shared and happy forehead :)!
Oh, I was the same as you ... I was shaking, roaring, falling into some crises and states ... that scared me. I just wanted it to be mine, I even wanted to get married haha. Yesterday I found out that he has a girlfriend. I didn't feel anything. I accepted it calmly. I don't feel anything for him anymore ... on the one hand I'm happy, but on the other hand I feel empty again. I love to fall in love, I love to love .... I will definitely miss this feeling a lot. My love for him was especially strong, it filled me, although it was not shared, I preferred to hope for some of my dreams, inventions ... I hope to fall in love again soon .... a wonderful feeling! Everyone should experience it! And let it be shared !!! The author
Honey, I was like that about more than a year ago, I liked a boy very much, he didn't pay much attention to me at first, and I was crazy about him, I cried every day and night and I cursed the bad fate that she did it to us ( we were many kilometers away) ... Suddenly, however, the opposite happened - he was crazy about me and was looking for me, and I was just indifferent, somehow I did not feel anything for him, and now I do not feel ... as if never I didn't fall in love with him ... I can't explain how, in a person I was madly in love with and I gave everything, just to have him I don't care now ... the thrill, the attraction disappeared ... I got hurt I overcame it ... BUT there is one big but ... unfortunately for me last year I fell in love with the most wrong person for me - the boy I'm with to this day, for some reason,since I know and everyone knows it's not for me ... the story repeats itself up and down, except that in the beginning he literally ran after my ass, did impossible things for me, and I didn't care, quite the opposite now I love him like crazy and I walk on his ass, and he doesn't seem to sleep ... he seems to say that he loves me, but in fact he treats me like a rag, and I feel bound by my feelings and I can't I leave it as if I am blinded ... I have slipped a lot ... so my thought is the people, the places are changing, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... everything is a circle, like a vicious circle ... that's right arranged life and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love each other, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))except that in the beginning he was literally running after my ass, doing impossible things for me, and I wasn't interested, quite the opposite now I love him like crazy and walk on his ass, and he doesn't seem to be asleep ... he says he loves me, but in fact he treats me like a rag, and I feel tied up by my feelings and I can't leave him blinded ... I've slipped a lot ... so my thought is the people, the places they change, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... it's all a cycle, like a vicious circle ... that's how life is set up and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love yourself, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))except that in the beginning he was literally running after my ass, doing impossible things for me, and I wasn't interested, quite the opposite now I love him like crazy and walk on his ass, and he doesn't seem to be asleep ... he says he loves me, but in fact he treats me like a rag, and I feel tied up by my feelings and I can't leave him blinded ... I've slipped a lot ... so my thought is the people, the places they change, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... it's all a cycle, like a vicious circle ... that's how life is set up and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love yourself, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))quite the opposite now I love him like crazy and walk on his ass, and he doesn't seem to sleep ... he seems to say that he loves me, but in fact he treats me like a rag, and I feel tied up by my feelings and I can't leave it as if I'm blinded ... I've slipped a lot ... so my thought is people, places change, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... it's all a vicious circle, like enchanted circle ... this is how life is arranged and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love each other, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))quite the opposite now I love him like crazy and walk on his ass, and he doesn't seem to sleep ... he seems to say that he loves me, but in fact he treats me like a rag, and I feel tied up by my feelings and I can't leave it as if I'm blinded ... I've slipped a lot ... so my thought is people, places change, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... it's all a vicious circle, like enchanted circle ... this is how life is arranged and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love each other, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))so my thought is people, places change, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... everything is a cycle, like a vicious circle ... this is how life is arranged and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love each other, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))so my thought is people, places change, but the situations we find ourselves in are the same ... everything is a cycle, like a vicious circle ... this is how life is arranged and know that there is nothing but really nothing accidental in this life ... love each other, share your love with each other and enjoy every happy moment of life :))
Well done to you, number 3. And I don't think there's anything accidental ... Let me tell you ... I'm a little sick that I don't feel anything for him anymore. My love for him can very easily be reawakened ... but it doesn't make sense since it will never be shared. I'm sick, I'm sad. I want to be in love and happy now ... but I'm not. I feel like I can cling to it again, just to feel that wonderful feeling, no matter if it's shared or not. But it doesn't make sense. I already forget it ... I really don't feel anything, it's very naughty. I feel total indifference to everyone. I don't want that to be the case ... I hope someone is found quickly who grabs my attention for a long time!
To number 4: Hi, I'm 1. There really are no coincidences. I understand that you feel a gap in your soul, but I am convinced that soon the gap will be filled :). It will happen spontaneously, so do not force yourself to like someone. I tried it, but it got worse. The person with a capital H will appear when you least expect it. Just be patient :))
I hope ... but one thing I don't understand, why did life meet me with him? He is not even Bulgarian. BUT the strangest thing was that he knew Bulgarians ... and he didn't even come here. It's weird, egati coincidence. I think I know why life met me with him, but I hope the answer to this question did not bring me unhappiness ...
There is a reason for everything. I loved a boy for 7 years and after he hurt me with a single sentence I forgot him. He flew away. With him I learned what patience is. Then after 1 year I fell in love with another. Unfortunately still inappropriate. He was constantly pushing other girls in front of me, not on purpose, he didn't know I liked him, but he still hurt me. With it, I learned not to pay so much attention to what was happening around me and how some people were behaving. After 2 years I overcame it too. After another 2 years with the third boy, in whom I am "half-in love", so to speak, I learned to communicate and be more open to the world, I gained confidence, self-esteem, self-confidence and a few more lessons. So everything has a purpose in this life. If something happens, it means that there is a reason for it to happen. And it's always for the best, no matter how it looks,
Okay, I think I know why life met me ... just so it's not bad ... :(