From the author: 1. I know this, it's just very, very difficult, because even if I don't feel part of the situation, it's there physically and it's not easy to break away just like that - you have to be blind, deaf, or have amnesia. I more or less care about people, whatever they are good or bad :). 2. I don't want to make my skype public, give it to yourself. 3. Your advice looks more like a threat to me ahahaha. As it became clear to you, the greater percentage of things in this direction have been done, at least as far as I have been able to do. The bad thing is that there are people who intrude on your life, even though they are unwanted. I can always tell them this directly, but I risk getting bad, even insulting them. There were also smarter ones who prudently withdrew on their own (I suggested it to them indirectly, of course :)), to let me go my way. But the world is made up mostly of fools :). Rather, I am trying to move forward gradually and I think this is the right choice for me. If I start doing things with a swing, I won't get her anywhere, I know her well and that's not my way, he never walked with me (I can't understand why all women like him so much: D). 4. I could hardly have read more nonsense. Self-blame is exactly the same as self-pity, only with the opposite sign. If one helps you with one, it invariably hurts the other. On the contrary, one must act rationally, to judge where one has sinned alone, to judge how far another's mistakes extend. The search for guilt only in oneself and only in others is equally unfounded. GG that this is the right choice for me. If I start doing things with a swing, I won't get her anywhere, I know her well and that's not my way, he never walked with me (I can't understand why all women like him so much: D). 4. I could hardly have read more nonsense. Self-blame is exactly the same as self-pity, only with the opposite sign. If one helps you with one, it invariably hurts the other. On the contrary, one must act rationally, to judge where one has sinned alone, to judge how far another's mistakes extend. The search for guilt only in oneself and only in others is equally unfounded. GG that this is the right choice for me. If I start doing things with a swing, I won't get her anywhere, I know her well and that's not my way, he never walked with me (I can't understand why all women like him so much: D). 4. I could hardly have read more nonsense. Self-blame is exactly the same as self-pity, only with the opposite sign. If one helps you with one, it invariably hurts the other. On the contrary, one must act rationally, to judge where one has sinned alone, to judge how far another's mistakes extend. The search for guilt only in oneself and only in others is equally unfounded. GG I could hardly have read more nonsense. Self-blame is exactly the same as self-pity, only with the opposite sign. If one helps you with one, it invariably hurts the other. On the contrary, one must act rationally, to judge where one has sinned alone, to judge how far another's mistakes extend. The search for guilt only in oneself and only in others is equally unfounded. GG I could hardly have read more nonsense. Self-blame is exactly the same as self-pity, only with the opposite sign. If one helps you with one, it invariably hurts the other. On the contrary, one must act rationally, to judge where one has sinned alone, to judge how far another's mistakes extend. The search for guilt only in oneself and only in others is equally unfounded. GG
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There is no perfect - and you are not. You can't ask us to do such a thing, you have to feel where your mistake is and work on it. In that case, I would tell you to ignore everything else and be alone with yourself. Take a break, go somewhere to relax, meet different people from those you have known so far. So you can succeed, just change the environment for a while and when you go back to the "nest" just destroy it and build it on the top branch :))).