What do you mean "They don't attract you sexually" - you kiss, you ask, but do you have an erection or not? Otherwise, I think it happens to other gay men, they even get married and have children - it's just easier for a man to have a relationship with a woman, and not just because of society, just because of the prospect of a normal family, and women are more consistent in a relationship and more monogamous than men, more family just. It's hard to have a gay relationship with a man for a long time - one of you will still blame. Besides, not all gays have a tender soul, and most are male. You have obviously found friendship, understanding, a deeper connection with your wife. In your place, I would just let go - see what will happen, do not set big goals and expectations, but I definitely advise you to try with her in bed what will happen. Don't promise anything and if you can't "lift the plane" satisfy her in another way or just stay hugged and at least you know what your orientation is. I don't think you'll lose her as a friend. Talk to her even in advance. You have nothing to lose. Maybe you are really bisexual and fall in love with the person, the person, not the gender. Just because you've had sex with men so far doesn't mean you won't have fun with women. Try. Every person is different. Maybe you're lucky to be bisexual. I say lucky because there is nothing to lie about - being gay is not easy. Not because of society, but simply because of the impossibility to have a normal family one day, children with your mother and father, a normal family and life. You have nothing to lose. Maybe you are really bisexual and fall in love with the person, the person, not the gender. Just because you've had sex with men so far doesn't mean you won't have fun with women. Try. Every person is different. Maybe you're lucky to be bisexual. I say lucky because there is nothing to lie about - being gay is not easy. Not because of society, but simply because of the impossibility to have a normal family one day, children with your mother and father, a normal family and way of life. You have nothing to lose. Maybe you are really bisexual and fall in love with the person, the person, not the gender. Just because you've had sex with men so far doesn't mean you won't have fun with women. Try. Every person is different. Maybe you're lucky to be bisexual. I say lucky because there is nothing to lie about - being gay is not easy. Not because of society, but simply because of the impossibility to have a normal family one day, children with your mother and father, a normal family and way of life.
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What do you mean "They don't attract you sexually" - you kiss, you ask, but do you have an erection or not? Otherwise, I think it happens to other gay men, they even get married and have children - it's just easier for a man to have a relationship with a woman, and not just because of society, just because of the prospect of a normal family, and women are more consistent in a relationship and more monogamous than men, more family just. It's hard to have a gay relationship with a man for a long time - one of you will still blame. Besides, not all gays have a tender soul, and most are male. You have obviously found friendship, understanding, a deeper connection with your wife. In your place, I would just let go - see what will happen, do not set big goals and expectations, but I definitely advise you to try with her in bed what will happen. Don't promise anything and if you can't "lift the plane" satisfy her in another way or just stay hugged and at least you know what your orientation is. I don't think you'll lose her as a friend. Talk to her even in advance. You have nothing to lose. Maybe you are really bisexual and fall in love with the person, the person, not the gender. Just because you've had sex with men so far doesn't mean you won't have fun with women. Try. Every person is different. Maybe you're lucky to be bisexual. I say lucky because there is nothing to lie about - being gay is not easy. Not because of society, but simply because of the impossibility to have a normal family one day, children with your mother and father, a normal family and life. You have nothing to lose. Maybe you are really bisexual and fall in love with the person, the person, not the gender. Just because you've had sex with men so far doesn't mean you won't have fun with women. Try. Every person is different. Maybe you're lucky to be bisexual. I say lucky because there is nothing to lie about - being gay is not easy. Not because of society, but simply because of the impossibility to have a normal family one day, children with your mother and father, a normal family and way of life. You have nothing to lose. Maybe you are really bisexual and fall in love with the person, the person, not the gender. Just because you've had sex with men so far doesn't mean you won't have fun with women. Try. Every person is different. Maybe you're lucky to be bisexual. I say lucky because there is nothing to lie about - being gay is not easy. Not because of society, but simply because of the impossibility to have a normal family one day, children with your mother and father, a normal family and way of life.