People, I didn't believe it would happen to me, but here it is. I am already a mature man, 32 years old. We met her a year ago at a gathering. Terrible babe, exactly my type, at 27. And I really liked her as a character, we immediately found common themes and interests, it turned out that we like the same books. But in the end, when I asked for her phone, she cut me off. Then I found out that she had been engaged for three years and that her boyfriend was working abroad. I decided not to bother. The last thing I need are love triangles and dramas. Yes, but ... it happened. So, when I found out that she was engaged, although we met several times in company, I was more friendly with her. True, we flirted a little, but I didn't invite her out, nor did I write to her on Facebook. But whenever we met, we laughed a lot, talked, danced. And the trouble came shortly after the new year. We were at karaoke with this company, and it so happened that we both ended up having a drink. We talked, danced and under the influence of alcohol I reached out to kiss her. She pulled away, but I pulled hard. And this time he answered me. I was insistent, we pushed and ... I took her home. It was a little awkward in the morning to send her away. I said to myself, "What, friendly sex. It happened, I'm not going to tease her anymore." But it didn't happen. I couldn't stop thinking about her all day, and the next morning I called her for coffee, which ended up in bed again. And so for almost two months. There is a very strong attraction, sex is great. And it's not just sex. We talk, laugh, go out. See you 4-5 days a week. We went on vacation for two weekends. And I admit that I like her very much. But I'm sorry I'm really her lover. Sometimes, when we're together, her phone rings and she leaves the room. He must be talking to his friend. He told me about Valentine's Day that he would go to him because the tickets had been bought a long time ago. I wished her only a pleasant stay, especially since I do not recognize this holiday. But inside it burned me.
When she returned, I asked her to talk about the whole situation. I asked her if she wanted to be with him or with me? She didn't answer me. I asked her if she only accepted me as a sex substitute? "No, no, I like you very much. You're great." I told her that I thought her relationship was over. That if they were for each other, she would have gone to him, or at least we wouldn't have had an affair. She cried, told me that it was difficult for her, that he loved her very much, that they had been together for four years and did not know what to do. That ended the conversation. We've seen each other a few more times since then and I haven't waited for the topic again. I'm sorry, though. I feel guilty about her boyfriend, even though I don't know him. One deserves to know that their relationship is exhausted. Whether she breaks up with me or someone else, that's all. I'm sorry for her that she is disoriented and obviously a party. I'm sorry too - I want a woman with whom we can really be together, not hide. I'm thinking of giving her some more time and telling her to decide. That I can no longer be a tramp, and if he doesn't want us to be together, we'd better finish, go through it, and give myself a chance to find a woman who loves me. I'm sorry for her that she is disoriented and obviously a party. I'm sorry too - I want a woman with whom we can really be together, not hide. I'm thinking of giving her some more time and telling her to decide.
That I can no longer be a tramp, and if he doesn't want us to be together, we'd better finish, go through it, and give myself a chance to find a woman who loves me. I'm sorry for her that she is disoriented and obviously a party. I'm sorry too - I want a woman with whom we can really be together, not hide. I'm thinking of giving her some more time and telling her to decide. That I can no longer be a tramp, and if he doesn't want us to be together, we'd better finish, go through it, and give myself a chance to find a woman who loves me.
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You know, tear up and throw! I speak from experience! I fell in love almost at first sight! I let him know, I hoped it was mutual! He was interested and secretly watching me, but he did nothing ... he was just frying me on low heat! Everything became clear to me a few hours ago, we were at a joint party ... I realized that there is a woman, a baby, a home ... And in seconds I sobered up ... All my aspirations passed, because I want to be happy and I would not share it with another ... Go and you ... don't let yourself be played and used! Success!