Hello! I am writing this story for the second time, hopefully this time it will be approved. I am a girl of 20 and my problem is unrequited love. I met a boy 2 months ago. I was in the park with a friend and he came to us first to ask for a cigarette, and after a while he came back and asked if they could sit with us with his friend. I invited them because I really liked it. I'll call him Hicks. We talked to them and it was about an hour and a half unnoticed when we had to leave. We exchanged profiles on social networks and left. My girlfriend and I went for coffee and after a while Hicks wrote to me. Since then we started writing to each other every day, for common things I teased him so to speak. We communicated quite strangely, but also interestingly. We sent each other videos of who was doing what, we greeted each other with songs. He showed interest. He was almost always looking for me. I liked it a lot we had a lot in common. And one day I decided to invite him out. Agree. We went out alone, but his friends saw us and were surprised that he was with a girl. They came to meet us and stayed with us. After a while he offered to leave them and let us both send me because it was late and cold. All the time we were with his friends, he caressed my hand and warmed it and occasionally touched my knee, because I was wearing torn jeans and opening it to keep warm. When we were already in front of my block, he hugged me and said that my hair smelled great. We hugged for about a minute and at one point we both went to kiss each other. It was great. He is younger at the age of 18, he doesn't look that old at all. And it's great. Modest, funny, and cute. Maybe that's what grabbed me. We broke up and he later wrote me goodnight. The next day this was not commented on, he just said it was nice. I didn't want to dramatize and I didn't talk about it. We kept writing. After 10 days, I asked him to come out. He said he would write to me later but did not write. I didn't say anything. But I stopped writing to him. However, he continued as if nothing had happened. He wrote to me, then stepped back a little. Then one day he wrote to me again and I remembered him about the incident with the kiss and that if he wanted we could forget her and stay friends. He said that nothing bad had happened, it was even good and if it happened it would be good again, but it was a bit strange and he didn't go out with girls much. He was avoiding now. He just told me that. I told him we could go out as friends, and he said well. Since then, a month later, I asked him again, he justified something. And at the same time he writes to me constantly teasing my heart. I do not understand. I was sure he liked me. And I even think about it, but I don't know why he behaves like that. I hope you give me some advice.
1 ramonasinger answered
If his friends are surprised he's with a girl, doesn't that tell you anything? The boy may be a secret gay. Who fights with himself, and who has not yet been perceived as such. If it's so important to you, find out more about him, if you have to ask his friends why they were so surprised to see him with a girl. Very likely to get some unpleasant answers .. ..