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2 eva_sophiex answered
There is always a way when you have the desire and the will. I think you have to change your thinking about life first - it's a gift, life has to be lived to the max, you have to have fun. I fully support you for the second university, because it is not pleasant to work all your life to do something you do not like. So, if you have money, start a second college right away. Yes, get away from the small town, it is not comfortable to live in a small town where you all know each other. You are only 22 years old, where are you in a hurry? You will meet the love of your life! There is time, do not rush. Live your best years and then look for a wife. Success!
3 khlo answered
1. finish the education you are studying 2. find a job - this will tell you whether to stay in the city or move to another 3. I am very skeptical about the law - with so many law schools full of unemployed lawyers. if you don't have connections in this area, which is implied by your story, it will be very, very difficult for you to realize yourself (I accept that you don't want to study just out of interest) 4. I don't know about the boyfriend anymore girls? how can we tell you a specific set :-))) look around you, maybe you don't see the normal girls who would go out with you, and the muffins don't pay attention to you F43
4 wevertonsenador answered
Dude, fix your spelling first (and I guess your spelling). You may think this is a super-trivial thing against the background of your other problems, but believe me - it's not! Gossips like "xia", "quota", "pray", "ko", "toz" sound super-rural and low-intelligence, and no serious girl or employer would look kindly on you ... That you don't walk on restaurants is very good - there you can not find anything but rugs. However, the reason why you do not go is not good, namely the lack of money. It works in this direction. Looking for girls with 99 sets is a super mistake! What do you expect from a 15-year-old pickle? Life wisdom? Thinking of living independently and dealing with problems? Just forget! For me - almost everything after the 90th set is a waste ... (and many of the previous sets). You rejected your friends because they "used" them ... I assure you that if you had a slightly wider heart, you wouldn't have done just that. Don't look at things so petty! Today to someone, tomorrow - to you ... And I don't know how it is with you, but I always feel more satisfied when I have given more of myself than I have "taken" from someone. With thinking like yours, you attract similar people to yourself, which closes the vicious circle ... I had to break it, as №1 says - with positive thinking and worldview. Eternally dissatisfied, grumbling and grumbling people are not pleasant to anyone, believe me. And I don't know how it is with you, but I always feel more satisfied when I have given more of myself than I have "taken" from someone. With thinking like yours, you attract similar people to yourself, which closes the vicious circle ... I had to break it, as №1 says - with positive thinking and worldview. Eternally dissatisfied, grumbling and grumbling people are not pleasant to anyone, believe me. And I don't know how it is with you, but I always feel more satisfied when I have given more of myself than I have "taken" from someone. With thinking like yours, you attract similar people to yourself, which closes the vicious circle ... I had to break it, as №1 says - with positive thinking and worldview. Eternally dissatisfied, grumbling and grumbling people are not pleasant to anyone, believe me.
5 sweetyurii answered
From the title you wrote, I expected a very serious and difficult situation. In fact, it is not exactly like that. From your point of view, the situation is bad, but it is not so from the side! I think you know very well what you want and you are focused, but you need some dose of support. Absolutely everything you want is achievable and most likely will happen. It is up to you exactly what steps you will take towards the goals. If you do not know exactly what the steps are, act on intuition. Do what you think brings you closer to your goal. If I were you, I would focus on my career and forget the rest. A girl next to you at such a moment will weigh you down and make it difficult for you to find your way. Get on your feet first. Start feeling successful and useful. For your information, I personally do not know a 20-year-old, who has achieved something significant in life and to feel very useful to society and others. These are stages towards the end of life. But you can definitely be successful. Keep going forward and up to the goals. For me you are in the right direction, and I have very high criteria. Set small and achievable goals every day and attack them! This is not true for the state and low incomes. And in this country you can achieve quite simply stop listening to others and develop! If you want more detailed advice on your goals, describe to me what steps you will take towards each goal! This is not true for the state and low incomes. And in this country you can achieve quite simply stop listening to others and develop! If you want more detailed advice on your goals, describe to me what steps you will take towards each goal! This is not true for the state and low incomes. And in this country you can achieve quite simply stop listening to others and develop! If you want more detailed advice on your goals, describe to me what steps you will take towards each goal!
6 politeeliza answered
Serious girlfriend 99 set? !!
7 impossiblefoods answered
From the Author: There is another part that I have not shared from my life. She has been following all her conscious life for as long as I can remember and I have memories of my existence I have health problems. The story of my health is as follows, I know it mainly from the stories of my parents. So I was born in April 1993. My diseases are as follows: I had an enlarged spleen, it is due to a blood transfusion through the umbilical cord after my birth, which damages a vein responsible for transporting blood to the liver or the spleen, I do not know. The vein is called the portal vein. So his doctors call it: "portal vein thrombosis", I also have varicose veins of the esophagus, I hope you know what it means that it is not explained to me. So my spleen has increased, and from the age of 4 I went to Pirogov every 3 months, every 6 months for periodic sclerosis of these varicose veins, so as not to cause internal bleeding. So until I was 13 and in the summer of 2006 I was not told to go and have my spleen removed. The spleen weighed 4 and a half kg. Then before the operation I was 49 kg, after it I gained 44 kg. Anyway, everything went well, alive and well I went 2-3 times again to check these varicose veins and their degree from the 4th dropped to the more harmless 1st degree. Accordingly, there is no danger of bleeding. As a child, they always protected me and made remarks to me, don't run, don't hit yourself, don't crack your spleen somewhere. I was careful with games and things like that, I was careful. 5 years after the operation everything was fine, 2 years I avoided hard physical labor. But gradually, little by little, I started and increased the workload, I mean with the inclusion of physical work in the countryside. In the fall of 2011, on an ordinary September day at the end of September, I ate corn in the village. I had given myself a little more effort, with a handcart I transported the corn from one yard to another, to the basket and so on. Everything went well, I returned to the city and went to lectures just the first year I had started regular training. My specialty is called, by the way, "Engineering Logistics" - I don't know if there is no realization with this specialty, as far as I have heard opinions they tell me that the specialty is good, but there is no realization in Bulgaria. At least without learning a foreign language I have no chance of being taken somewhere. So back to the history of the disease. I go to lectures, and I notice how my head is shaking (my hemoglobin has dropped due to internal bleeding just from these esophageal varices, dropped from 120-130 to 70 units). I'm sick of you sitting at home and the whole pale one evening was the beginning of October, I was measuring my blood pressure because I felt that something was wrong. My blood pressure was 70/40 very low. I decide to go to the emergency department in the city. Our small town is 70-80 thousand people. I can't put on my shoes, I called a friend and took me in my car and from there I was taken to the local hospital in the intensive care unit for 10 days. They stabilized me, sent me to Varna to Sveta Marina, where I stayed for 45 days and did all sorts of tests, and finally told me that I needed a second operation to tie these varicose and deformed veins and various ones. I am not a specialist in the doctors' terms, so I tell you what they told me and what I heard, I went to Tokuda Hospital, where I had an operation on February 15, 2012. The operation lasted 9 and a half hours, from 8: At 30 in the morning, when I was taken to the operating room, I woke up at 19:00 in the intensive care unit. They cut the tail of my pancreas, and I have chronic pancreatitis. They cut my esophageal varices, sewed my esophagus, cut my stomach. They said they did some pyloroplasty on me. Separately, they removed 2-3 small spleens, which call them accessory spleens, some self-reproducing after the removal of my main spleen. So now I constantly take pills: probiotor and propranolol. They are not serious, but they are pills and I am on a diet without fried, hot, spicy, greasy and such dishes. Ice cream, soda, alcohol, cigarettes, drugs all sorts of things I can not afford and do not use. This is a long and widely told part about my difficult childhood. I'm not looking for compassion and sympathy, but I decided to share that with you. Apart from finding a job, I will find difficulties due to the fact that I am employed with 80% reduced working capacity (TEMC decision), where I decide as a security guard unarmed guards do not want to take me, seeing that I have a TLC solution. The TEMC tells me to avoid hard physical work, physical exertion and chemical and toxic substances, so I can't work as a gas station attendant. I am mobile, I am not disabled, I move everything normally (Thank God, for which I am glad that I am alive and well!) So I said to myself, I no longer work in the country and to waste my health, I do not want a third operation, as a construction worker and porter work I will never start working, no matter how poor and hungry I remain. I value my life and health very much. I didn't find it on the road though. Separately, one detail I do not take blood from every transfusion: I take blood only from my mother and sister, my blood is transfused according to an extended antigenic formula. I have a congenital immune deficiency, as a child every cold and runny nose caught me easily. Before the operation one month before February 15, 2012 (the date of the operation is this) I went and they took a bank of blood from me and my sister and kept it for 28 days until the operation so that they could, if they had to transfuse blood. They even drained another 200 g bank on the operating table before they put me to sleep. :) Everything went smoothly, God forbid, and I'm glad that I'm alive today and I've gotten this far, but now this clash with finding a job and realizing it on the labor market scares me and whether I will be able to succeed. Separately, love bothers me and torments my head. I will write again and follow the topic, by commenting on something, if you ask me something I will answer. :)
8 captaincap7 answered
From the Author: So to answer, one more thing. To comment №4: For my spelling and orthography, I may have made spelling mistakes, but believe in real life and I communicate very correctly in my daily life. I hate to write in flash, imply in Latin letters in Bulgarian. I just do not read such opinions. Besides, for the opinion that everything after the 90th set is a waste, a colleague, according to your statement, means that I am also a waste. Does that mean I'm useless? But make sure I'm not petty, I consider myself an intelligent person, I'll take it as a joke :) Accept my comment on your words just for Personal opinion. I do not want to judge anyone, as I say in my topic I ACCEPT CRITICISMS AND I TAKE A LESSON! TO COMMENT №5: Concrete steps to achieve each of my goals: Especially for my first goal, finding a job will be very difficult, a lot of perseverance and search will require patience at the same time. Given that I have 80% TEM. My real expectations for first income, as a person without 1 day of work experience are between BGN 400-450 maximum. If you give more and find something better like work and pay welcome. Personally, I have never worked, I have no way of knowing what I am and what I will be good at. After starting work, I will intend to work for myself, so to speak, understand him to dress in newer clothes, I'm not talking about branded and shiny clothes of 200 - 300 levs, I'm talking, just to update my wardrobe . Let me tell you that my last sneakers are from last year, April, I have 3 pairs of jeans from 9th grade, and I still wear them bleached or I don't wear what I have. My clothes are priced in the range of BGN 20-30 per piece, so to speak. Ok that my physique is the same, I do not gain weight, to my great joy. I'm still 56-57 kg in summer, 58-59 kg maximum in winter. The other goals, once I find a job, secure and able to cover expenses such as accommodation, bills and food, will then be to look around for a serious friend. Of course, it will be difficult for me in a foreign city, I don't expect it to be easy at all, but I won't give up easily. It would be nice at such a moment to have a person next to me (girlfriend) to hit me on the shoulder when I come home from work in the apartment in the evening, and not to stare at the empty 4 walls and wonder if this is my whole life. Elementary things bring me joy. I love traveling, I take a car ride of 50-100-200 km when I have the means and the opportunity and the weather is good. I'm talking about day walks. I love and I really want to share these moments with a loved one next to me. At the moment I'm doing it myself. When my soul shrinks, I get angry, start the car and go somewhere, I just leave the city for 3-4 to 5 hours and come back in the evening. This distracts me a little and releases the tension inside me. I am very good at heart, what I have experienced over the years and trials have made me appreciate such small joys as a sunny day today a walk among the trees in a forest park, such things make me very happy, the sound of birds, calm my nerves and some harmony in my soul they carry. I like to watch movies like: action, drama, romantic, sad. I don't listen to chalga, I hate listening to it only if I go to a disco, out of nowhere just because they play it. I listen to music like: house, pop, the one they play on Radio Fresh, and The Voice TV. This gives me pleasure. Music is the second thing when I am depressed to listen and calm my mind and thought spiritually. I just forget about all the problems for a moment and shake off everything. As I said, I will be hellishly good and loving this girl who grabs my heart. I know and see that most of the younger teenagers are obsessed with selfies and things like that, but there are also nice and decent girls among all the others put under the common denominator "muffins" or "pickles". I just believe in the good. My ideals are not: to get drunk, fight, get drunk and have sex with the first girl I met and dropped off at a club today. "I look at this on a slightly different level and from a different angle. I don't resort to paid love whatever I believe that my time and moment will come and I will feel that the girl is exactly mine for this thing. It is not said that with the one I sleep with for the first time I will marry her. I am not like people from other ethnic groups and religions (with all due respect to their customs and traditions of the people) to protect myself until the wedding. :) I made a big lyrical and quite long deviation, but I hope I will be understood. Many questions, difficulties and intertwining, I struggle to organize my thoughts and the whole consciousness in my head, but for 20 days now I have been walking like a prodigal son around me and wondering what to do. I cannot achieve inner humility. My soul is rebelling and wants everything to happen in an instant, but I know that this cannot happen and I must, as you tell me, everything one by one, and everything with time. My thinking is a little strange and I am told that I am a person with a strange character. Maybe these trials in life made me like that. I sometimes shout that these thoughts are about costs, bills and other everyday life have made me think as an adult, ahead of my age and generation. My peers at university have nowhere to think about things like me. Mom and Dad help them and spend whatever money they make on themselves (I mean scholarships and awards). But I know and I was brought up not to look at the people in the jugs and "under the hat", but to look at my jug and saucer and that's why I don't mind. Many times I get tired of the fact that at some point I do not have a father to help me, even with basic advice. But my destiny was what to do. However, agree that not everything and all topics I can share with my mother. That's why there are some things like the ones I share on this site and all this strains and weighs me down. At least I'm proud of one thing: What I have achieved in this life, I can say that with a lot of work, deprivation and alone with the help of only mom, grandparents I have achieved it. They helped me financially, but everything else I learned to take advice and decisions myself with very little consultation with adults in the face of my mother (47 years old). I also have an older sister who separated after our father died, she lives with her husband in an apartment in another city and with a 4-year-old child. I'm an uncle. We only see them as guests. Well, in a nutshell, I wonder if I continue to fight or give up, so far what I have experienced seems easy against the background of these mysteries and questions that arise in me. I stop writing that I feel like I'm starting to repeat and dig in one place. Thank you again. They helped me financially, but everything else I learned to take advice and decisions myself with very little consultation with adults in the face of my mother (47 years old). I also have an older sister who separated after our father died, she lives with her husband in an apartment in another city and with a 4-year-old child. I'm an uncle. We only see them as guests. Well, in a nutshell, I wonder if I continue to fight or give up, so far what I have experienced seems easy against the background of these mysteries and questions that arise in me. I stop writing that I feel like I'm starting to repeat and dig in one place. Thank you again. They helped me financially, but everything else I learned to take advice and decisions on my own with very little consultation with adults in the face of my mother (47 years old). I also have an older sister who separated after our father died, she lives with her husband in an apartment in another city and with a 4-year-old child. I'm an uncle. We only see them as guests. Well, in a nutshell, I wonder if I continue to fight or give up, so far what I have experienced seems easy against the background of these mysteries and questions that arise in me. I stop writing that I feel like I'm starting to repeat and dig in one place. Thank you again. who separated after our father died, she lives with her husband in a flat in another city and with a 4-year-old child. I'm an uncle. We only see them as guests. Well, in a nutshell, I wonder if I continue to fight or give up, so far what I have experienced seems easy against the background of these mysteries and questions that arise in me. I stop writing that I feel like I'm starting to repeat and dig in one place. Thank you again. who separated after our father died, she lives with her husband in a flat in another city and with a 4-year-old child. I'm an uncle. We only see them as guests. Well, in a nutshell, I wonder if I continue to fight or give up, so far what I have experienced seems easy against the background of these mysteries and questions that arise in me. I stop writing that I feel like I'm starting to repeat and dig in one place. Thank you again.
9 nazcummy answered
Author, number 1 writes to you. I'm sorry for your health problems. I hope all this is over. You will certainly achieve much more. But you are graduating from higher education and you have to look for an office job, for example, where there is light physical work. Even try it at the school where you study. There may be a place for an assistant / doctoral student.
1 simply_beauty_by_anxhela answered
Hello! I'm sorry for the difficulties you went through! Congratulations on being able to deal with them. I want to tell you that at the moment, what worries you is something completely normal for a person who is just graduating from university and, so to speak, "enters life". Make and decide on everything step by step. So everything will fall into place. As for love, it cannot be forced. Everything happens gradually! As for a second degree ... many people are currently enrolling for a second degree for one reason or another. But your first specialty will always be useful to you! And never say bad things about your first university! Remember that from me! Always think positive, and I recommend you follow sites like http://www.powerofpositivity.com, http://www.powerofpositivity.com, etc. which will inspire you with positive energy. Success!