Hello, readers. If you encounter spelling mistakes, I apologize because my keyboard changes words sometimes. I'm not writing here for the first time, but I rarely write. I want you to give your opinion on what I will share. 1-2 months ago I was dating an 18-year-old girl, I'm 22. We broke up because we fought a lot, mainly because we were really jealous. We quarreled the day before she turned 18 and on the day of her birthday we broke up. I was on music now and she was there and we haven't talked since we were separated, but we see each other often. And I want to know how I can understand this: She told an acquaintance not to write about her to him, there is no point in giving me vain hopes, and in music she looks for me and looks at me often. I know it doesn't make sense to keep thinking and hoping, but it's hard. And the fact that he looks at me so often confuses me a lot. A friend told me not to pay attention to her and she would look for me herself, but I really miss her a lot and when I try not to pay attention to her, I fail so much. What do you think it means that he looks at me so often?
1 annawynn answered
So she's curious about you, which is perfectly normal considering you've been together. But if you gather the strength to ignore her, believe me, she will begin to wonder why you are ignoring her and what is happening. Now that she sees that you want to be together and is constantly watching her, she is reassured that you have not escaped her hands. Try to pretend you don't see her and see how she reacts. Then you can try talking to her, and if you don't get together, just move on.