I Feel Like I'm In The Army.

   I understand perfectly well that you want to relax a little and in the end now is the time. In the interest of truth, your father imposes on you a completely healthy, in every respect, way of life. Of course, it seems a little boring and monotonous to constantly rush, but in time you will realize that the real victories in this life come with a lot of work and a lot of perseverance. Which is the radical opposite of today's mantle where it occurs to you that you are perfect and that you deserve everything. and you deserve it now, right now. Of course, you hardly realize these things now. Calm down, that's normal :) What you don't realize is that it's extremely easy to deviate from the right path and turn your life so that in years to come you realize that he was wasted or in a lighter version - you made mistakes for which you and everyone around you will pay, for years. Even without realizing or classifying them as such then. He told your father that he would grind it for you, that's right. But the fact is that once you stop punishing yourself and destroying just to get it back, you'll know he was right. And I'm telling you this, not because I'm in the role of your father, but because I've been in your role and I'm speaking from personal experience. Now, before you play me and classify me as your father's sect, I'll tell you it's a little too much. It's great that he's trying to make you healthy when you're a kid. But on the other hand, perhaps protecting them too much deprives them of the basic right of every child to discover the world as it is. Sometimes this adventure ends with bruised knees, sometimes it ends with good memories that you will return with affection when you enter the incredibly cool life of adults. But in any case, now is the time to learn some lessons on your own and maybe your father, in your quest to build you as a leader, is doing you a disservice because you will grow up with the constant feeling that you have not lived your childhood, you have not did this or that madness. Which is the case when viewed from this angle. Indeed, a pizza or a fanta will not kill you or deprive you of first place in the next race. But technically, your father is right to ban you from these foods because a quick search on the net will tell you a lot about the effects of soft drinks, for example. And that they are far from as harmless as most people think. So, that my advice to you is to catch your father and sit down to talk, but seriously, like the big ones. I advise you to start the conversation by pointing out that you are very grateful to him for all the efforts he puts on you and his desire to make you a champion both in sports and in life. Every parent wants their child to be a "champion" or "champion", who understands it. Every parent wants to hear these words of recognition. and it is true, in your case. But you are still a child (well, teenager :)) and still want to feel at least a little like your peers, at least from time to time. That is, at least on Sunday to sleep, to play online with a friend (just do not choose some nonsense like GTA because your father will freak out, but if in the game you start shooting people on the streets right and for a cover you catch a whore to you service in the car: )) Or for example make him take you somewhere where you wanted to go but have not had time so far. In general, to do something that you personally like, not him. I don't believe he doesn't understand. It is quite normal to want time for yourself without his presence. Get together from the teacher and go to a hut or to the sea, for example. Such things. But really be careful what and how much you want. And you meanwhile download and watch a movie - "requiem for a dream". It may seem a bit extreme or brutal, but believe me, it's very easy to do that. Easier than you think, anyway. And if you still don't believe me, and you think you're sick, read the "Family" section. Many of your peers write there with completely different problems from yours. Regularly, children are left to fend for themselves, abused, or at best, so alien to their parents that not only do they no longer talk to each other, they don't even communicate. Until one day the parent realizes that his child has changed so much, and in some cases even hated that it was too late. Or it is very difficult to rebuild that connection, which in the beginning should never have broken.

   A lot of things are healthy, but if you don't have time for women, talk to your father that you appreciate what he does for you (you'll thank him one day for the healthy habits and body you have while your peers stretch their bellies), but you want a little to dilute the schedule so that you have time for social life (friends, boyfriends). After all, just because he doesn't have a wife doesn't mean you shouldn't have one. It seems that after your mother's death, he has clung to you and will hardly let you separate and become independent. Talk to him and if you see that things are going that way, when you turn 18 go to study and find a job to become financially independent of him.

   So I didn't finish the firman on number 1, but number 2 is right. It is very bad for a child (especially if it is actually a child in the sense that he has no siblings) to grow up with a single parent. A single parent always obsesses his child! / It is an interesting coincidence that the unemployed parent is also obsessed, even if he is not single ... to have at least one sexual partner /

   Sport is a good thing, but your father is a maniac. I am also a competitor, I have medals, I go to tournaments in Bulgaria and abroad as well. But you are 16 and you also need a social life. Explain this thing to your father and tell him you're getting tired too. And that with pizzas and other foods and drinks is also too much mania. As an athlete, I do not limit myself to anything, I generally do not drink soda, but if they treat me I do not refuse: D, I drink a little alcohol, even in small quantities, it is useful. Talk to him and explain how you feel. Otherwise, some restrictions are worth it if you are an athlete, but everything should be within certain limits. The body can not drive on salads and vegetables and exercise every day, rest is just as important as exercise. The lion

   Nonsense, at your age you will donate blood twice a year! If you are now 16, then he made you donate blood at 15. As you write these fabrications, at least give yourself some effort! Grandpa Torbalan

   Talk to him. Tell him that you appreciate him and know that he wants the best for you. It's just that what he wants is not what you want. He may have once wanted to have sporting success, but something prevented him from transferring his dreams to you. But you can also be complete by evolving into everything else. I believe that it is not the lack of junk food that is the problem, but the fact that it obsesses your time. Healthy food is a good thing. I think the lack of time is the problem.