I Fall In Love With Him, I Don't Want To

The Story

I have a problem ... I'm a girl of 17. My best friend is in love with a boy, let's call him Ivo. The three of us have been going out for a while, me, her and him. We are all very good friends. Things are going well between them, they have little left to become more than friends. Of course I am very happy for them. However, my problem started last Friday. My best friend was sick and only Ivo and I went out. We went all day, in the evening we went to Rock Cafe, and then to a party. We had a great time, we talked all the time about music, which is a favorite topic for both of us, he behaved hellishly sweet and sweet. At the end of the party we danced together, drank together, we were together all the time, just the two of us. Everything was ok, until the next day when I saw him and he hugged me I felt butterflies in my stomach and my knees softened. I don't know what happened to me that night, but I've been like that ever since. My best friend is recovering, the three of us are moving again, but I already feel differently. Please advice: Do something to understand Ivo's feelings and if they are more than friendly (of course they probably aren't, then I guess we'll be friends again), let's go, but this way I'll hurt seriously my best friend OR to withdraw, despite my feelings, to stay with Ivo only friends, then probably they will leave, and I will feel terrible, but this is the better option not to hurt my best friend and I really don't want to hurt her, but I don't know what to do with the damn feelings. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!" the three of us are moving again, but I already feel differently. Please advice: Do something to understand Ivo's feelings and if they are more than friendly (of course they probably aren't, then I guess we'll be friends again), let's go, but this way I'll hurt seriously my best friend OR to withdraw, despite my feelings, to stay with Ivo only friends, then probably they will leave, and I will feel terrible, but this is the better option not to hurt my best friend and I really don't want to hurt her, but I don't know what to do with the damn feelings. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!" the three of us are moving again, but I already feel differently. Please advice: Do something to understand Ivo's feelings and if they are more than friendly (of course they probably aren't, then I guess we'll be friends again), let's go, but this way I'll hurt seriously my best friend OR to withdraw, despite my feelings, to stay with Ivo only friends, then probably they will leave, and I will feel terrible, but this is the better option not to hurt my best friend and I really don't want to hurt her, but I don't know what to do with the damn feelings. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!" probably not, then I guess we will remain friends again), to leave, but in this way I will seriously hurt my best friend OR to withdraw, despite my feelings, to stay with Ivo only friends, then probably they will leave and I will feel terrible, but this is the better option not to hurt my best friend, and I really do not want to hurt her, but I do not know what to do with the damn feelings-. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!" probably not, then I guess we will remain friends again), to leave, but in this way I will seriously hurt my best friend OR to withdraw, despite my feelings, to stay with Ivo only friends, then probably they will leave and I will feel terrible, but this is the better option not to hurt my best friend, and I really do not want to hurt her, but I do not know what to do with the damn feelings-. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!" and I really don't want to hurt her, but I don't know what to do with the damn feelings-. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!" and I really don't want to hurt her, but I don't know what to do with the damn feelings-. "So, my question may seem silly to you, but it's important to me!"

Last Updated
July 29, 2020
Author:
victoria_16

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