Help me, please! For some time now I have been falling into so-called manic states, in which I am obsessed with someone other than my partner. I don't fall in love with a photo or something related to real life, but let's say with an actor from a unique scene in a movie and I start dreaming about how it happens to me. The last time I fell in love with an actor was watching him dance to a woman ... Since then I can't get it out of my head. I lose interest in my partner and start comparing him to him. My partner is a good boy, but lately he repulses me because he no longer flirts with me, does not pay much attention to appearance, although he has good genes and is weak and even if he eats a lot he does not become fat and greasy. I don't know what's happening to me, then when the manic state has passed, even if I see the actor, nothing scares me, but it's 1-2 months,
1 taylor_wood answered
Well, you lack flirtation, jokes, that's it. And since you can't get them with random people / because it would be considered infidelity / you watch movies and mentally tease the person who grabbed your attention and imagination: D. Not bad, it's normal. There are people who are more inward-looking and often neglect physical / real / life at the expense of the inner, you are obviously one of these people. No problem, you just miss adventures :–). Tell your friend that you need a revival in your relationship and that you need to do something about it !!!!