I like women with the so-called vulgar appearance, you all know them, they are very common mainly in Eastern Europe and Bulgaria - they are also called gold diggers, chalgarki, playmates. Make-up, soaked, etc. I love shiny things and luxurious women, respectively. But these women are busy or bloated, and I'm not rich enough to fit me. They are quite cold. My question is, is it possible to find an ordinary boyfriend and turn her into a real shiny lady I'm a graphic designer and artist and I guess I can make her transform for me and from an ordinary girl to become a shiny Barbie whatever look I like. And in that case there will be a mind and a normal soul, right?
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The problem is that if you have a mind and a normal soul, you will not be able to turn her into a Barbie. He is more likely to leave you.
and if you "transform" it according to your model, then she will have to go with someone to financially support her new vision :)
If she has a mind and a normal soul, you can't make her transform because of you. Wonabi muffins as much as you want, but if you don't have a lot of money, you will spend them on her to beautify her and she will then be a worthy prey for someone with more money. Why stay with you? Whatever you can give her, you will have already given. Apart from a little money for beautification and treatment as an object, you can't offer her anything else.
Haha, isn't this a commodity for you? !? !! The choice is hers, because we are people too, with the right to choose how we look;) Success with women and your values (you will need it :))
This is one of the dumbest stories I've ever read. Don't take offense, author, it's not bad to like such girls, after all, everyone has the right to taste. But from now on I can tell you that some smart and really intelligent girl will not be ruined in this way, much less change because of you. In my opinion, you have missed the essence, the most essential part of life, namely that if we truly love someone, we love their essence, not their appearance. I can tell you the following: “We do not love those we find beautiful, but we find beautiful those we love. The rest is just a hobby. And I will ask you on behalf of a girl, if you have any respect for yourself, if you find a naive girl who is ready to change so that you do not abandon her, please sincerely do not make her change, but to you really love her. Don't do it to her and don't use her naivety against her, it's very cruel. Believe me, if you find the right person and fall in love with his personality, you will forget about what he looks like, you will receive enlightenment in what delusion you lived and how this person is completely enough for you, because it gives color to your gray everyday life and meaning in your life. . I hope my words touch you at least a little and make you think. If you have any questions I am here.
Author ... with a mindset like yours ... I can't believe you're a graphic designer or an artist ...
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It is unlikely that a woman with a mind and a normal soul will cause it to become a rag. Especially if she's smart. And luxury women are not women who are looking for money in men, because if they are looking, then obviously they are not, and then my question is Well, where is their luxury? But what do I explain to some graphic designer. You can't have a luxurious woman because you are not a luxurious man. Look, I don't know how you haven't caught such a complex, so I'm listening to you and you're a complete complex.
With this way of thinking I advise you to take 1-2 cats and prepare for a long and lonely life.
Graphic designer and artist? !! No, you can't turn a decent girl into a shiny babe muffin.
Both a shiny Barbie with a vulgar look, but a 'normal soul'? I, on the other hand, want a glowing dog, which, if it gets stuck and its akita, can only be cleaned and teleported to a garbage container. Now seriously. Your main problem is not that you do not make a lot of money, but your psychological attitude. One cannot be changed, and the sooner you accept this fact, the better for you. You are currently thinking like a woman who is a 'lower ball', if I may say so, and she knows it, the prosperous don't like her and instead of trying to raise her level, she catches a man type 'man of the people' with the idea and arrogance, hope, faith in years to ... manage to change him. And of course she doesn't succeed. (And over time she transfers her efforts to do everything possible to deceive her relatives and acquaintances that they are 'upstairs' with her husband, but now here the topic is not about that ..) My advice is as you want such a woman YOU YOU TAKE PLACE TO MAKE MORE MONEY ... YOU HAVE TO RAISE YOUR SOCIAL STATUS. Men who are with such women were also not wealthy as boys, but they mobilized, combined work with intellect, measured risk, courage, initiative, etc. qualities, and prospered. There is another way, which is natural - to win a woman with your radiance, your attitude towards her, your external and internal beauty, charm, excellent sex, intellect, rich soul, originality and positivism .. with your 'I' .. and as an artist, this should make it at least difficult for you. But on, it makes it difficult for you .. and on top of that you justify that the reason is that you don't make a lot of money, but the truth is you know - it's that you don't have the confidence to communicate with these women ... they were bloated and cold, they wouldn't 'stick' to you, because you are not rich - ballast per kilogram. For the first time I come across such flat, elementary thoughts from a person who is engaged in art. In principle, artists are most aware of human nature, but you are obviously a big exception, you may not be very creative in general, but rather an ordinary performer, such as a construction worker. Still success;) w30 For the first time I come across such flat, elementary thoughts from a person who is engaged in art. In principle, artists are most aware of human nature, but you are obviously a big exception, you may not be very creative in general, but rather an ordinary performer, such as a construction worker. Still success;) w30 For the first time I come across such flat, elementary thoughts from a person who is engaged in art. In principle, artists are most aware of human nature, but you are obviously a big exception, you may not be very creative in general, but rather an ordinary performer, such as a construction worker. Still success;) w30
Well, yes, I like luxury cars too, but I don't have the money to buy them. So no matter how much I fall in love ... I don't see what can be done. You will just waste a lot of time in vain dreams and finally, realizing what you could have, you will be forced to be satisfied with any woman, and you probably will not deserve her.
Nothing like that ... My cousin was doing similar experiments. Spend a lot of money, buy a shiny car ... That. which he invests in such "ladies" - others robbed him of the harvest, and the ladies themselves pick it up, whipping someone a penny. He is now alone and is 40. And he doesn't even have the money to repair his car.
haha ... i'm shocked.
Should this be a provocation? Or? Basically the question - What if she also wants to change you from an ordinary boy to something else .. fitness maniac, metrosexual, with a radiant face ... etc. Then what happens? Will you let them turn you into some kind of Ken if you want her to be Barbie? The world rarely revolves around what we would like people around us to be, but rather what we might be like. In conclusion, I doubt that any girl will be willing to transform her according to your ideals.
Why do you spit on the author? I don't see anything wrong with the topic, and it's just the reality that most women really don't know how to support themselves. I respect men who want and prefer to invest in the appearance of their wives instead of going abroad. And author, I don't think that a girl would be angry with you if you buy her clothes, make-up, shoes, etc., on the contrary - it will have a good effect on her self-esteem and hence on your relationship. Good luck. J. 24
So what did you jump for me, is it so difficult to grind a diamond? !! I'm not talking about silicone or plastic surgery, just for me to make a sexier hairstyle, to start wearing more makeup, sexier clothes. There are no ugly women and everyone can be shiny if they want to. And for the fact that I shouldn't change because of me, but how do you still want to change your husbands? !!
"Will you let them turn you into some kind of Ken if you want her to be Barbie?" Yes, I will! This is my dream! The problem is that I'm too lazy now, I have no incentive. But if she wants to, I shave my head for her and start training hard !!
"some graphic designer" Why with such disregard, they are more sought after and earn more from your stupid profession.
Author, when you fall for muffled gold diggers, become the way they like them, so that you have a chance to hire someone like a holder. And for how long - it depends on your bank account.
Oh, that's a joke! Most of my friends are artists, I am well acquainted with the spirit of these circles and in general the aesthetic criteria, including for women. The author of the topic is anything but an artist. Apparently some selyandur is making fun of us, and we are tied to him here. There is no person with a relatively decent education who uses the word "soaked". Don't bother leaving comments!
I grew up with a TV planet - Tatiana with Thousands of Salts, Anelia, Emilia ... it's normal to expect the woman next to me to look like that. My education is business administration, but I also like folk things like pop-folk. I listened to it before, 2003-2004. I haven't listened to him since. But I still like shiny babes.
28, I know that artists are generally hipsters and go with similar hipster women, with glasses, curly hair, etc. But I don't like hipster things.
It's not bad that you grew up with Planeta TV and I used to listen to them and like the singers, because years ago they had normal songs, not like now. However, understand that these women have a lot of financial resources and their main task (besides shooting videos and making songs) is to take care of their appearance. There are women with similar looks who are not part of show business, so I'm not saying it's impossible to have such a boyfriend. That is, people have different tastes. But to change an ordinary girl without her wanting to wear more makeup and invest more in her look is no longer right in my opinion. You cannot and should not change people, but accept them as they are. No girl with a little dignity and self-esteem will agree to compromise on how to dress, how to look, how to behave, etc. And last but not least, artists and artists in general do not like women "with glasses and curly hair" ... They like and appreciate the natural beauty without tons of makeup, extensions and so on.
Jacques is for you .... I was stopped on the way to ask me if I had something on my face, I answered: no. The man on the road told me that I was naturally beautiful and the groans had no basis for comparison with me. My friend finds me attractive too, but he always hints at me to wear an edie - what are you and ... I do it, but sometimes. I'm neat and tasteful, but this mentality ... In general, television, commercials, etc. instill these special role models. A woman, if she is in place and respects herself, will not look like a whore, shiny. They are all like that on this planet TV, the author wants that. What a man of his art, where the world is going, shame. F21, wild and natural;)
I have noticed that the most mediocre men, with the most mediocre appearance, precisely those who have nothing to offer, have the highest demands on women for appearance, for mentality, and for everything else. Except that in life there is an iron unwritten rule - you have no right to ask, nor will you get more than what you can offer. Either you have to raise your level, at least financially (but you are lazy and can't do it), or you will be left with only the fantasies about the "stuffed" muffins. And don't even think about a decent girl. If there is a drop of intelligence, he will judge you by two tales and will not look at you again. No self-respecting woman would waste a second with you.
Author, realize the simple truth that you are a man not of art, but of the artificial. :)
I plan to start going to the gym and become muscular. And I know that I need money, I will save and I can start doing a business that makes money quickly or become a politician or an MP.
Number 36, the above requires a lack of conscience and low self-esteem.