Hello, I have been reading the stories you are writing for a long time and I decided to write my own. I am 22 years old, I have been dating a boy who works in Germany for three years and our relationship was as much a relationship. In those three years, he came only once and that's it. During this time, I met another man, a man with whom my day began and ended, a man who showed me what it is like to love and be loved. But we just can't be together. Now this boy came from Germany two days ago. One night we slept in them, but the next I decided to be alone in my home. Now he will stay here for a month and mine and his parents want us to get married and I don't want to. Several reasons stop me: 1. I don't know him well, 2. I don't love him as much as before, 3. I have a good job that I don't want to lose. 4. I don't want to go there with him. And my mother is so obsessed with him, for her he is perfect. And I don't want to rush everything. If you want to give an opinion, what do you think THANK YOU.
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Do not rush! Follow your heart. No one can tell you what to do. Marry when you want and for whom you want, and don't do it to please someone, even your own parents. Because then you will regret and neither you nor the people around you will be happy. From: A woman in a similar situation