Please post my story. I am tormented, I feel insecure. I need advice and opinions. I am a 22-year-old woman. I have been in a relationship with a smart and handsome man for three months. Before that we saw each other in a company for a few months and there were looks, hints, flirtations between us. He always treated me well and even put up with my bad mood. I feel good with him. But there was a problem for me. We have an acquaintance who is quite frivolous and likes to flirt with men and they like her. She first added him to Facebook and he accepted the invitation. I didn't raise the issue because he has different people in his subscribers and I didn't want to look like a maniac. In addition to adding it, this woman goes to his workplace. He finds different occasions and revolves around him. Yesterday I saw her going to him again and spoiled my whole mood. Because I had seen him before, he asked me how I was and wanted to see each other. I'm worried because she's prettier than me. We are both thin and slender, but she has a beautiful face and self-confidence, and I am ugly and I lack confidence. I'm afraid he won't give in and leave me. Not that I lack male attention. But I don't want anyone else. They are not like him. And not that I haven't lived without him before, but somehow it's better, it's better when he's with me. Please advice. What to do? They are not like him. And not that I haven't lived without him before, but somehow it's better, it's better when he's with me. Please advice. What to do? They are not like him. And not that I haven't lived without him before, but somehow it's better, it's better when he's with me. Please advice. What to do?
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Stop comparing yourself to her for a start. Why are you afraid of her? He chose you. He's with you right now. He has feelings for you. And I can go on and on until tomorrow to list things that are entirely in your favor. I understand you, you are afraid because you hold on to him and he is important to you. But darling, how can you say "I'm ugly"? Ugly according to whom? If he is with you, you are beautiful to him. If you are ugly in your eyes, it already betrays another problem you have with yourself. In addition, beauty is a very relative concept. One thing may be beautiful to you, another to another. It is scary individually and this issue is very controversial. Also, start liking yourself. If you're insecure, if you're comparing yourself to her (or any other), if you're afraid he might prefer someone to you - well, all these negative thoughts will affect your self-esteem terribly, and believe me, no one likes complex people. Focus on your relationship. Go out with your loved one more often. When you are together, think of nothing but how to have a wonderful time. When you're happy together, what does it matter how many other women will follow in your boy's footsteps? When he is happy with you, others will not be of interest to him. Heads up, chick, you are beautiful and don't let anyone or anything instill the opposite in you! :) what does it matter how many other women will follow in your boy's footsteps? When he is happy with you, others will not be of interest to him. Heads up, chick, you are beautiful and don't let anyone or anything instill the opposite in you! :) what does it matter how many other women will follow in your boy's footsteps? When he is happy with you, others will not be of interest to him. Heads up, chick, you are beautiful and don't let anyone or anything instill the opposite in you! :)