Hello! I am a 13 year old girl. I live with my mother, my father, my grandmother, and recently with my grandfather. They are on my mother's side. They are good people, but I want to live separately. When they are at home, I am ashamed to invite my friends. I know it sounds like I'm ashamed of my grandparents, but it's true. I want, like each of my friends, to live ONLY WITH MY PARENTS. Sometimes grandparents quarrel a lot, which irritates the WHOLE HOUSE. Dad, like me, generally doesn't want us to live with them. He told it to his mother more than once, or he hinted at it, and of course I understand it. I think we need to be independent. I used to be okay when my grandmother and I lived alone ... but now my grandfather came too. Before he came, he lived in the countryside. Sometimes when we come home late when we are guests they sleep. When Dad starts talking louder, his mother scolds him. Then, in principle, they quarrel after that, but I think my father is right. When my father worked abroad, I heard them say that they wanted us to buy a big apartment and live there. Well at least he wants to. We have a one-room apartment that we rent out, but it is too small. In my opinion, we should stay in the big apartment, which is a two-bedroom apartment, because they still attributed it to my mother, and we also made repairs to my room and living room.
After all, Dad paid for them. The problem is that I am afraid to talk to my parents because I don't know how they will react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather .... PLEASE HELP !!! When my father worked abroad, I heard them say that they wanted us to buy a big apartment and live there. Well at least he wants to. We have a one-room apartment that we rent out, but it is too small. In my opinion, we should stay in the big apartment, which is a two-bedroom apartment, because they still attributed it to my mother, and we also made repairs to my room and living room. After all, Dad paid for them. The problem is that I am afraid to talk to my parents because I don't know how they will react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather .... PLEASE HELP !!! When my father worked abroad, I heard them say that they wanted us to buy a big apartment and live there. Well at least he wants to. We have a one-room apartment that we rent out, but it is too small. In my opinion, we should stay in the big apartment, which is a two-bedroom apartment, because they still attributed it to my mother, and we also made repairs to my room and living room. After all, Dad paid for them.
The problem is that I am afraid to talk to my parents because I don't know how they will react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather .... PLEASE HELP !!! which we rent out, but it's too small. In my opinion, we should stay in the big apartment, which is a two-bedroom apartment, because they still attributed it to my mother, and we also made repairs to my room and living room. After all, Dad paid for them. The problem is that I am afraid to talk to my parents because I don't know how they will react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather .... PLEASE HELP !!! which we rent out, but it's too small. In my opinion, we should stay in the big apartment, which is a two-bedroom apartment, because they still attributed it to my mother, and we also made repairs to my room and living room. After all, Dad paid for them. The problem is that I am afraid to talk to my parents because I don't know how they will react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather .... PLEASE HELP !!! that I'm embarrassed to talk to my parents because I don't know how they'll react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather ....
PLEASE HELP !!! that I'm embarrassed to talk to my parents because I don't know how they'll react, but rather how my mother will react. So please help me how to proceed. I've been doing this for half a year now, but I can't anymore. For many years I want to be completely alone (without my grandmother), but now my grandfather .... PLEASE HELP !!!
1 samneilltheprop answered
I want to see my grandfather at least one more time. I want to hear his voice, sit at the table with him, talk about his youth. I want him to laugh with my father, hug my mother and smile. It is impossible. Think about this alternative, it is much worse not to have these people and not to be around them now that you can really get to know them. You are ashamed of your grandparents unnecessarily, they are people and do not wish you ill. They haven't stopped calling you friends, you don't want it yourself. You are influenced by your father's opinion. I ask my friend to speak quietly in the evening, even though we live completely alone. Why you have to talk out loud in the evening is annoying. The apartment you live in was prescribed to your mother, but it is from her parents who are alive. My father bought food for my mother's parents and helped with many property repairs, which was not prescribed to my mother and was in the future divided between her and my uncle. He didn't say a word, he didn't want a stone from the yard, which makes him a hero in my eyes. If my husband is one day like him, I will be convinced that I made the right decision when I chose him. My mother also did a lot for his parents without saying a word. Respect of young people for adults. Consider, you are a child, and these are topics for the adults in the house.