And what now ... will you become 8 people in 2 rooms? Author, take matters into your own hands. You are about to ruin not only your life, but also that of the people around you, especially your child. How will you live in this misery? You are 23 years old, you probably haven't earned BGN 1 with a job in your life, but you have ambitions for a big family. I'm sorry, but someone has to tell you - having children and a family is a RESPONSIBILITY. Yes, abortion is definitely a nasty job, but it's even worse to have children without a future and a basic standard of living. Girl, there are contraceptives, there are condoms, your young wife - don't expose yourself like that. What happened - happened. Whatever you decide will be wrong, because you have already made the mistake of conceiving this child. I am 29 years old and have been having regular sex with the same man for 12 years. We use condoms and I have never gotten pregnant and I do not have abortions. We collected money and worked hard when others took loans. We lived in the quarters, we struggled with 14 hours of work a day. We studied and worked in parallel and there was no rest for us. Nothing is given to us in life. For a week now we have been the proud owners of a very large house in the center of the capital, which we are currently building. We don't have children yet, but that will be soon. We do the bill in two words! Look around - people live well. There are families with two cars, they go on vacation, they provide clothes, good food, housing for their children - you will never be able to provide that for your only child, but you have gone to give birth a second time. How will this little one feel when he sits next to my child at school? When you look at your torn shoes and you have no money for breakfast? What if he gets sick? I come from a poor family, but not as poor as yours. We still lived in 3 rooms, it was warm because we cut wood in the summer, we had animals and we ate well. And vegetables and fruits from the garden. Thanks to mom and dad! But at the age of 12 it became clear to me that I had to brush my teeth and claws in life to achieve something that others are born with. 10 years of slave labor and study costs us to have a start in life. And my husband comes from a poor family, much poorer than yours. He worked as a construction student on a crust of bread, but we stuck together and planned - we avoided getting pregnant, not that we didn't want to have a baby, not that we didn't love each other. That's why I can't understand people like the author. Come on, in our time there was nothing without it, people gave birth, but today there are all kinds of opportunities that YES - cost money.
1 cute_darina answered
Hello, it seems quite close to me for so many people, don't you have the opportunity to move out? And why does your husband want you to have an abortion? If you don't have the financial means to look after another child, maybe that's why. Do not do it! The child is a gift, give birth to him and you will always be fine, and yours will help. But by no means am I in favor of abortion