I need the advice of someone who has more experience in this area. I will try to be as short as possible. I am 18 years old and the girl I like is 20. We have known her for a long time but in the last few months we have become closer. We go to cafes, she calls me every day to see me and recently I decided to try my luck with her, but things didn't go well, I also said that I like her and that I want to be more than friends, but she doesn't want anything more. And for this reason we did not see each other for about 2-3 weeks. Anyway, we're fine now and we're friends again, but I still like her and I just can't stand it. I will emphasize that when we are together we are constantly hanging out with each other, pinching each other, biting and generally behaving like second graders and we have a lot of fun. This pinching and so on. n makes me want her even more and I think next time we both just start kissing her and whatever happens. I think she's just waiting for me to act, but I'm worried because I know that she basically deals with older people and her last friend was about 30 years old, and I wonder where she will go to deal with me where I'm 2 years younger. from her. How would you do and what would be the best thing to do :)
1 brownish_skin18 answered
I don't know, but as you describe him, he looks at you as his best friend, with whom he can be himself, and behaves like a small child without embarrassment. Not that we women don't drool and hang out with our loved one, but usually not so often, and even then sexual tension is felt. And she doesn't seem to have that. For now, accept that he looks at you as a friend, rather than as a potential boyfriend. It's ugly, but it's true and if you put a lot of pressure on her for something more, you can push her away. So don't kiss her so as not to shock her, but rather try to tell her at a game that you like her as a woman, and not just as a friend. I hope I'm wrong and she responds with the same.