Hello! I am a 23 year old girl and I have never had a serious relationship before. I can't understand how you can "get married" at a young age, and you can't look away, how you can be with the same person for months, years, even decades and he arouses you, given that you've seen him and sick, and in all sorts of conditions, and you have entered into some routine and routine. I can't imagine the same person attracting me for so long in all these circumstances, even the most wonderful one, but it is clear to me that there are no perfect people. I see how everyone "bonds" and it is perceived as immoral and wrong to look away because it is "infidelity". What if the person you're with isn't "your man"? In the future, I don't see myself as a married housewife and mother, but rather as the female version of "old bachelor" (" to experiment with myself and my sexuality, to have interesting things happen to me, and not to have to account to anyone who will want to control and criticize me. I know I'm crazy and maybe the problem is in me, but I don't want to change, and I can't want to. I even feel free that for fear of loneliness, scruples and prejudices I will not be enslaved by a pumpkin and live a life that I really do not want. to experiment with myself and my sexuality, to have interesting things happen to me, and not to have to account to anyone who will want to control and criticize me. I know I'm crazy and maybe the problem is in me, but I don't want to change, and I can't want to. I even feel free that for fear of loneliness, scruples and prejudices I will not be enslaved by a pumpkin and live a life that I really do not want.
1 tjuicy6917 answered
What do you have to understand, people are different. And if you don't want to, don't get married. It's better than tying a bastard and then cheating on him. And as for "experimenting with yourself," you will experiment while you are young and active. Then there are her intentions to "experiment", not her. Then what are we doing? Are we tying some bastard?