Hello, I had a relationship with a man for half a year, but we have known each other for 2 years. and he liked me all the time. We were very close and shared almost everything. Suddenly he started moving with people who play mosquitoes and who knows what else they did and his attitude started to change, he pushed away a lot of his old friends, he started to play too and he was very stable with me and was rude and constantly we drove as well as with our parents. Anyway, I did my best to help him get out, trying to support him. The result was that we had a lot of fights, he even insulted me a few times, and there were some really disgusting actions towards me, even though I was with him in quite difficult moments. At the moment, his relationship with these people has broken down and he has allegedly stopped gambling, I helped him fix his relationship with theirs, and everything seemed to be getting better for him at last. The thing that ended our relationship was that he had been invited to a party, which he said he would not go because people were like that or like that. But on this day he suddenly tells me that he will go because many insisted, and only for 10-15 minutes after work (there was also the gathering in question) and goes home. After work he calls me and tells me that he went home to go to the toilet and that he did not go through the party in question and finally he calls me again to tell me that he is going there. When I asked him if there was a special reason for him to go back there. He answered "No", they just called him again and he owed them respect. What doesn't respect me for ?? Explain to me how he would only sit for 10-15 minutes for a maximum of half an hour and I "aha, good", "well, good", he told me that I had annoyed him and that he would call me when you left. He called me after 3 o'clock. During this time I called him once - he did not pick me up. When he called me, he shouted "well, let me tell you I'm home" and I said, "Well done to you, was your half-hour stay at the party nice?" "And he" what are you hinting at me ", I" I'm not hinting at anything, I'm just asking you ", he" What ", I" Fuck someone "- I know it's rude and it doesn't suit me, but I was terribly angry and full of doubts - he shouted "fuck me" and hung up. I stayed like a blast !! Did I deserve this after everything I did for him ???? I called him again and told him that he might not have shouted my answer and he "for what" and I "the answer to my question" and he "okay, say something else", I "was it good", he something else ”and I“ yes, I hope it was worth it ”and closed. We haven't heard from each other since then, neither he nor I called him. I do not understand why he does not call, at least to try to fix the relationship? Doesn't it mean anything to him, he doesn't care if I'm a part of his life or not? He used to tell me how much he cared for me, how much he loved me, how much I helped and supported and listened to him. Now that doesn't mean anything, it was all just a lie. He doesn't miss me and won't even call me? I don't understand, I feel terribly offended and betrayed by his behavior and attitude. Now that doesn't mean anything, it was all just a lie. He doesn't miss me and won't even call me? I don't understand, I feel terribly offended and betrayed by his behavior and attitude. Now that doesn't mean anything, it was all just a lie. He doesn't miss me and won't even call me? I don't understand, I feel terribly offended and betrayed by his behavior and attitude.
1 fabbeeless answered
I think he answered you on purpose because he was angry. he knew he would burn you when he told you he had slept with someone. then he understood from your reaction that he had succeeded and continued, saying that it was good. it is possible that he feels limited or that he is taught that you are limiting him. my advice is to save yourself such questions in the future. I tell you from experience - they only make things worse.