Hello everyone, I have some doubts and I decided to share them with you. I have been with my friend for a year, but in the last 2 months the closeness between us has evaporated. I hug him, kiss him, caress him, and he stands like a mummy and does not react. He does not take the initiative for any tenderness and caresses towards me. Not to mention sex, he always claims that he is tired, that he has a headache (typically female excuses). It is true that he works a lot and gets tired, but still these excuses are valid for a while. I'm starting to wonder if there is another or what I tried to talk to him, he categorically denies having another, everything gives way to tension and fatigue from work. Even so, I'm getting pretty dumb and I'm starting to feel like an intruder in my own relationship. Advise me what to do. Thank you in advance.
1 red__black answered
I went through the same thing. I don't know exactly what is the case with you. Don't make me paranoid, but first check for another, but secretly from him so as not to offend him - see phones, internet ... Otherwise, maybe he is really under some stress, there may be problems, men are the most sensitive to finance and work. We women are taught that a man is almost a sex robot, but this is not the case. They are also emotional and usually lack of money and problems at work are reflected in bed. Another possible reason is that there is a problem between you, that your relationship is not going well. For example, when I argue with my friend after 30 minutes I'm gone and I'm ready to rape him haha, but he's not like me and it passes more slowly, and when he is offended and angry, the last thing we do is sex :( I would advise you not to put too much pressure on your boyfriend.