Hi. I'm writing this here because I have no one to share. My boyfriend and I are 20 years old. We've got a two-link. We're pretty much fine. He's been good to me, he says he loves me, and he told me he was thinking of a future with me. This year he went to work in England in April for two months. It was very hard for me to leave, but I didn't have the opportunity to go with him since I was a schoolgirl (I was changing classes in front of the class and I was brought back with 2 years). June when he came home everything was fine between us. This time we were thinking of leaving together and working in England until the end of the sentry. It came to pass that there was no suitable offer for the summer, but only for the fall. I didn't have a chance to go with him in the fall and he left alone again. You came home two days ago. I was so glad we were together today. Here comes the problem. In June I want to apply to the VTU (I am from another city). If I get accepted right away, I have to go there to find a place and a job. Months ago, we made plans for him to come with me and live together while I was studying. And we haven't been together in a while, and we wanted to live together now. Yesterday I caught the topic of my application at the university and he told me he disliked Veliko Tarnovo. And I want to study right there. And I told him that in this case, we'd better split up. He's honored to go to England from time to time for 2 3 months and then live with the money he wanted here. I don't like that kind of life. I have a feeling this man has changed radically over the last few months. We used to talk about how we're going to live together, we wanted to have a family someday, and now he tells me the city didn't like it. I told him a long time ago that I wanted to study there and never said anything like that before. And then he told me he didn't want to live in a bed. In England, for a year's work, he could make money for his own home, and I didn't want to go with him, and he said it meant that I didn't think of a future with him. Am I guilty of wanting to study and not want to work abroad? Is it worth continuing this relationship or is it already exhausted? I love him, I don't want to break up, but I don't see how we're going to continue after we want to live differently. Give me some advice on what to do.
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