Hi. I'm writing this here because I have no one to share. My boyfriend and I are 20 years old. We've got a two-link. We're pretty much fine. He's been good to me, he says he loves me, and he told me he was thinking of a future with me. This year he went to work in England in April for two months. It was very hard for me to leave, but I didn't have the opportunity to go with him since I was a schoolgirl (I was changing classes in front of the class and I was brought back with 2 years). June when he came home everything was fine between us. This time we were thinking of leaving together and working in England until the end of the sentry. It came to pass that there was no suitable offer for the summer, but only for the fall. I didn't have a chance to go with him in the fall and he left alone again. You came home two days ago. I was so glad we were together today. Here comes the problem. In June I want to apply to the VTU (I am from another city). If I get accepted right away, I have to go there to find a place and a job. Months ago, we made plans for him to come with me and live together while I was studying. And we haven't been together in a while, and we wanted to live together now. Yesterday I caught the topic of my application at the university and he told me he disliked Veliko Tarnovo. And I want to study right there. And I told him that in this case, we'd better split up. He's honored to go to England from time to time for 2 3 months and then live with the money he wanted here. I don't like that kind of life. I have a feeling this man has changed radically over the last few months. We used to talk about how we're going to live together, we wanted to have a family someday, and now he tells me the city didn't like it. I told him a long time ago that I wanted to study there and never said anything like that before. And then he told me he didn't want to live in a bed. In England, for a year's work, he could make money for his own home, and I didn't want to go with him, and he said it meant that I didn't think of a future with him. Am I guilty of wanting to study and not want to work abroad? Is it worth continuing this relationship or is it already exhausted? I love him, I don't want to break up, but I don't see how we're going to continue after we want to live differently. Give me some advice on what to do.
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xoxoprune answered · May 28, 2020
I don't see how. Of course you're going to enroll in school. If you're no longer pursuing a common goal, everyone in your path.
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jessilee_ answered · May 28, 2020
Welcome to the world of big people.
Where factors-ball. And people change all the time.
Just divide and everyone goes on their way, obviously you don't share it. The sooner the better.
A... and housing for a year... Success:D
Bratan.
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andreita_martinez answered · May 28, 2020
I also do not like Veliko Tarnovo-there is not much work, and the one that has is for miserable money. Students undercut wages because the city is small. If you want work and study Sofia, Plovdiv, Varna and Bourgas are much better options.
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anabelbratt answered · May 28, 2020
True, Tarnovo is a very miserable city. It was centuries ago the capital, okay, but today is a country hole. His university was mostly rustic torocks like the other factories for diplomas. Better to work in England than for funny money in Tarnovo. I guess it won't be your relationship, but nothing-you're young, you'il find others.
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kimdenise answered · May 28, 2020
You're looking for commercial relationships, not love. It's better if you find your true love.
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lul_uu11 answered · May 28, 2020
The connection has been exhausted. I had a similar situation to yours with an ex, only pushing to work in England, as crazy worked there, only to get back here and not to give up six months!! No money invested in anything, no round zero, all day with friends, or a game of comedy. All apartments, cars would buy, businesses do... Guess if something happened? And yours like that, for a year in England would buy an apartment here;), Manny these empty talk at 20 years old! If you want to study in Veliko Tarnovo, go, look at yourself and your interests, that life is very short!