Well, what if, while you were writing to each other, she just realized that things weren't going to work out between you, that you didn't fit in as a character? If so, what do you think he should do?
Like men do them, that's how women learn.
You were a naked flirt, flattered by your attention and nothing more
Well, she thought it wasn't okay to go deeper if she was going to leave the country. Would it have been better if you'd gotten closer and had fallen seriously?
Or maybe she realized that she doesn't really like you, but she's just very impressed with this flower gesture and the card, because no one has ever done anything like that for her before, albeit a small one. Yes, she called you because she was impressed by the gesture when she wasn't used to things like that, but why force herself if she didn't like you? And at the hospital, you probably imagined she came to you the most.
She was just trying to do her job well so that she didn't have anything to eat for her senior colleagues and colleagues.
What's wrong with misunderstanding, you're young- you're filming. She was probably new and therefore more positive towards others - you know how it is in a new job, one tries to make a good impression. She wondered how tactfully to refuse you without affecting you, because she didn't know the extent to which you got into the movie and what consequences it might have for you and for her. Drink a cold water, and next time don't be so stubborn and dazzled. Things need to happen by themselves, to see a clear mutual interest, not just unilateral gestures and suggestions, adequate for bound or very close and well-known people.
There's not even much you can't understand here. It's all right. She told you she didn't want a relationship because she was leaving the country. I mean, she was up for seeing a couple of times to make a push and have sex, and cut you off. But because you didn't press it, you just got the cut.
In general, I'm surprised by the theme - and you, and she, are pretty accurate people. Avala! Sori, it didn't work out, but you look like a nice, social guy, it's going to work out with someone else.
I'm a man, but I never understood what it was to understand. He just goes abroad and doesn't want a relationship. Were you supposed to pledge eternal loyalty in the third week, what? I really don't understand what you're asking. Or maybe you just didn't like it and didn't want to offend you. Just because she's accepted a few dates to get to know each other doesn't mean things are 100% settled.
Or maybe you're not asking, and you're just sad, which is understandable, but if you're thinking the right thing, you've got to support her choice. It doesn't work.
Well, if she didn't want a relationship, why did she write to you? I think you've messed up in the conversation, or you're just tired of so much communication in viber....
So, what's wrong with you? The girl saw things get serious, and she was honest with you that there was no point in starting a relationship because she was going away. From this, how to explain it to you? She didn't want to give you hope and then tell you that she was leaving, and that when she saw that things weren't just friendly conversations, but she decided to end them before it got more complicated. Would it be better for you to start a relationship, to make plans for how you're going to be with her, and she'd dump you in two months because she's leaving?
Guys, after all, she tracked down his number and looked for him.
Author, there seems to be something, but what exactly is she able to say? But there's no way to get rid of someone you really like, for such reasons, especially so sharply. It's possible that during the time you've written to each other, she's determined that you don't like her, but as a woman, I'm going to tell you, I think it's much more likely that it's related to another man.
You can ask for an explanation, but you don't know if you're going to get a sincere answer. You've decided if the girl is worth digging into this.
I forgot to say the most important thing. For a year and a half now, she's been on the same job and didn't go abroad, a friend who was recently in the hospital told me.
Number six, how to push it was janham, when I was dragging 15 kilos of gypsum and i hadn't moved from home for three months. The idea was to get my cast off on a first date, det.
Apparently, the reason wasn't that he was going somewhere. Why isn't the truth just telling you at times like this? In short, yes, but the truth.
Hey, don't like me, man, don't get offended, but you're not my type or anything. Why should any absurd explanations be invent?
Look, this is gone. I didn't fall for the chick that it wouldn't get out of my head, but there were still some ambiguities left.
By The Author.
I'il say you lost her chatting. How long is he going to wait for you? And the roses you did not give in person - a slightly mouldy comes already with the postponement of the meeting. Women smell when a man doesn't have enough top*s. Otherwise you're really very accurate, but a little more flair will do you a good job.
in that case, you just didn't like it and got rid of you tactfully not to be offended.
You have to be easy to manipulate or bad boy, another guy doesn't like it in Bulgaria. There are two types for each chick. It's usually fashionable to be a flyer and it's more in demand, so she's into the determined cheeky. But I've stopped dealing with women for ten years. and I always cut them off. I don't even want to have sex, and it's not a big deal. And that's why they tie me up because I'm inert.
For the few months, you haven't shown any initiative, why she's wasting her time with you any woman. A woman who waits a month for a bouquet to show her feelings, then another month to look for her and nothing, finally finds the number on the patient's lists and you hang out again for a few weeks. If you are going to have to wait for a marriage proposal from you, you can wait for it on the day of your first pension(:
A 15kg cast stopped him when a man wanted and couldn't climb stairs in front of the hospital after her opening hours to take her out for coffee, or at least to see her and limp to send her to her car or to the public transport stop. She showed initiative and found your number, and you waited vaguely for her to see why. How does she know you're waiting for your cast to be removed? However, it is clear to every person that if someone is really in love not a cast, but a train to crash him will not stop him.
20, all the while we're out in front of the hospital. Then you say "manny' guy's in trouble." This man, after all, some self-esteem.
The truth is, she liked him so much that she wanted to get to know each other, and that's why she found him. But then something about dating, he did something wrong or just wasn't her type, and she invented the lie with overseas so as not to offend him. It's nothing out of the ordinary, it's just not always two people who have a few dates. It could have been the other way around - she didn't like it. No one has to pledge allegiance to the third date.
A lot of wit, great dramatization, great wonder and whining here, and things are so simple - a few dates and you either like each other and get in a relationship or you don't like everyone in your way.
But she's neither the first nor the last, she doesn't need that much drama, these are normal things in life.
Well, author, you missed the most key information- that the chick was still on the same job a year and a half later... we write here a cheeky one.
Well, i guess she's not as accurate as I thought. She didn't like you for her own reason. If it's been so long, just forget it and focus on other girls.
21 THEY NEVER WENT ON A DATE!!! The whole thing is:
A month after dating, without any meetings or conversations, he sent her flowers for her birthday at work. A month later, nothing, complete silence, Then she found him chatting several times on Iber and he still did not take a step, waiting for him to get his leg healed to invite her on a first date, but she did not know what he was waiting for and why.
Now look at things from her point of view! She's talking to patients, and there's a cool guy in the middle of it, he's being discharged. A month of silence, then she has a birthday and receives a bouquet brought by a stranger on a card writes the name of the nice patient. The next month, nothing, then she took a step and found his number, wrote to him on viber for a few weeks, but he did not ask her out.
And he doesn't take the next step for a relationship, waits three weeks and refuses to hope.
23, yes, now I have reread the story, and they have not really come out, and I have been left with such an impression. Yes, he should have been more proactive, or at least explained, but I still don't accept lying in front of the hospital. He just had to ask her out. Now that he was on crutches, he was going to limp a little, it's not a pain to die. I wouldn't make a good opinion. Too much of an initiative, too much.
Oh, people, don't you read that the author was still on crutches while chatting and they agreed, starting to walk more normally to see themselves. I do not see a lack of initiative here, on the contrary, I would have done the same thing. Author, I honestly stopped trying to understand women a long time ago. A while ago, I dated a girl who was such an actress that it was already a difficult thing to surprise me. At the beginning of this year, I was in a similar situation to yours. I even dropped a theme here. We met on her own, and at first I didn't pay attention to her at all. She started making all sorts of ins of it herself, and she's serious. She was definitely interested in me, and when we finished our work together, I just asked her by text to give me her contact phone because she had said she was having trouble using her job. Suddenly it seemed to sink into a dungeon - our speech, our picture. I wondered, like you, why this whole circus was, but at the end of the day, I said a big deal and just waved my hand. After about two months, we had to work together again, and again the same scenario. This time, though, I didn't buy much for her. I was still nice to her, as I used to, but I waited patiently for our work commitments to run out and called her two or three times at the office, just to hear it. In fact, I wanted to confirm the doubts that turned out to be true. In general, there was no particular desire for conversation. I told her she could call me, too, so I wouldn't just be looking for her. Of course, she didn't call me at all. There's not much to think about. I don't have any desire to deal with women who don't know what they want or change their opinions and moods every five minutes. Cross it out boldly and don't deal with her anymore.
Maybe she really intended to leave, but at the last minute she gave up. Maybe she liked someone else during that time, maybe the author messed up something without realizing it. Maybe she just wanted to read her ego. She may have really interpreted the fact that the author is waiting to throw on crutches as a lack of initiative. There are many options, we can only guess, and the story still read it through the author's prism (he may have missed something himself), and what actually and accurately happened, one God knows.
It's the bad thing about this site that we can't hear the other. first-person.
Number 25, you got what I wrote correctly. It really started and ended very quickly. First I suggested we go on a date, and it's two or three times, but I got a little twist across the street, then I assumed I was rushing and the girl wanted to get to know each other first, then let's see each other. Maybe at first she was afraid I was some psychopath. So I decided to postpone a little bit so she could find out what kind of person I am, and she also said "get better and we're going to go out a little bit.
Number 27, we're really looking at things through my prism. We don't know what she would say about it.
Personally, I have a visual sympathy, there's interest when she finds me my number. Initiative on my part is not lacking either. All right, let's just say there's more to be desired, but... So. Things are going well, at least for me. I write and often, I also call when he's not at work.
Three weeks of writing and socializing, she's starting to understand that I'm not some rich guy, she sees what I do, what my job is, how much money I make, and she's told myself this isn't working.
After all, I'm not Franco Balta.
I think the chick's a gold digger, but when she found out I was just a regular person, her interest disappeared.
By the Author
as 23 wrote. above - it's pretty obvious that you've burned the food. Men like a lot of people and do things like that. From waiting for you not to be too cheeky and everything to be perfect and we're missing the moment. The moment was 1-2-3 days after she found you in a weiber. The ankle is just an excuse, it's not good for you, the women feel this stuff and they run. The foreign details in all other details are irrelevant.
Author, a gold prospect for nothing in the world would be reluctant to become a nurse, that she would get a job as such.
The author does not look for reasons for his problem in it. If she was a gold-plated one the way she found your number, she could easily understand what you're doing. It's logical that, as a nurse, she found your number on the medical records, it's easy to know if you got a hospital paper and what you work for at the hospital company. So even before he called you, viber already knew if you were poor. In the end, before she cut you off, she only realized that you weren't proactive enough, and that caused her to end a relationship.
I'm a man, but I'm sick of hearing men whine that they didn't want them for money. Now, stop the. That there are mercantile women, there are, but you've made every one of them. Who's wrong with him, he's giving it money. You're getting ridiculous now looking for all your money problems. Instead of admitting that she's a snide, "I don't have money, she's mercantile" and let's get it over with. It's all the money in this world.
19, not that you're wrong, but you're exaggerating. Many Bulgarians do not like the "bad guys" or, moreover, the easy-to-manipulate slobs. Especially from the last 300. It's more important for a man to know WHEN he's bad and not let anyone, be it women, get on his head or try to manipulate him. Any valued man would put such a woman in her place, but the bad news is that such men are rarely found in Bulgaria, or at least according to my observations. I don't know how it is abroad with these men.
To the author: perhaps her plans for abroad were invented to get you out, but it is absolutely possible that she had real ones that failed or postponed them in the future. At least it seems like a lie like that, because it's easy to check if it's still working in the same place or a friend of yours who was a patient to tell you what happened. There's one way to try to understand, and that's to ask her, but she's insecure because she probably won't tell you the truth. She did a lot, maybe something didn't like you.
Black Sabbath
Does it just seem to me that this is the story of Gino Biancalana and Kristian Kaneva?u
Just because mercantile women don't work is not true at all. They don't work for those who have managed to stick to someone's money, but they're units. On the table, no matter how much they don't like it, they have to work. I know a lot of things, and everybody works they want-- they don't want to. Yes, they've been listening for a few years trying to cling to someone wealthier, but when they see it's not working, they go to work.
Author, I wrote it to you above number 25. You did the right thing and the right thing to do. Besides, women, when they like someone, always find a way to try. And the slightest signal is enough, and often even they don't need it. If the chick had a real interest in you, you'd be out a hundred times by now. Even if you had stopped looking for her yourself, she would have called you or written at least once to see what was going on. You move on, and that's it.
Black Sabbath once again made its competent opinion on love matters. Even though she's never dated a mome in her life. That's a natural intelligentsia. And if she'd gone on two dates in her life, she'd be given the title of Doctor Honoris a cause of intersex relations.
36, I've dated and interracial has never been my cause. Otherwise, after such an ugly comment, it's more than inappropriate to discuss someone's natural intelligence. Your Black Sabbath.
Well, each of us has our own annoyances ;)
I don't think the topic is up to date yet, but I'm also annoying you with my opinion on the situation. In my opinion, this is a very nice story, told with a sense of humor and self-ionicness. The author simply does not understand the rules of worldly pleasantries, and that not every such ends in a relationship. My work is about communicating with different people on a daily basis. For my birthday, I must receive through couriers bouquets of men with whom I have worked during the year. For Christmas - some symbolic gift. It's just courtesy of good cooperation. I always call to thank you for the gesture. With a lot of the people I meet around my work, we maintain regular relationships - they call about some issue, I call them. Some of them and I have even made friends so much that we know each other's families. I've been invited to lunch, I've accepted the invitation. And that's it. A patient to send flowers to the nurse who cared for him is perfectly normal. To thank him is a matter of upbringing. Talking to the sympathetic sick man sometimes, because he's funny, is also in the order of things. But that doesn't necessarily mean anything more. The girl just made it clear. And I've had a few instances where my sociability has been misunderstood and I've come out diplomatically. The whole story, in my opinion, is just a misunderstanding. A discrepancy in expectations. There's nothing else to understand, author, and you don't have to be annoyed. If I send you a bottle of wine tomorrow because I like the way you write, does that mean you have to marry me? Excuse me, but you're thinking like an old maid. He tweaked me, and now he's not calling...
I support number 44, the girl was just polite and may have accepted the idea of a date at first simply because she was uncomfortable to say no. After all, she liked you as a person, of course, but not enough to be with you.
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