Hello, I am 15 years old and I want advice. Before I tell you my problem please don't get annoyed with the years and I'm human and I have problems like you. The story is this: I've been dating a 4-month-old girl, but I'm not happy. We go out often, and the outing itself does not give me pleasure, I accept it as a duty, not as fun. I can't break it, she loves me and she proved it to me. I loved her in the beginning, not anymore. I can't explain why my mood changed so much, believe me I have no idea. It's very complicated because it was with me the first time. And theirs know - yes, I know theirs and the interesting thing is that her father trusts me a lot. I want this relationship to end and to be alone for a while without a person next to me. Believe me, it's not easy for me to pick up the phone and say out of nowhere, "I don't love you, I want to break up more." but on the other hand I'm tired of simulating a relationship and pretending to be happy because I'm conscientious about breaking it. Please advise me to explain to this girl in a way that will not hurt her that I am not happy and do not want to continue. I can't explain it, we don't have any problems, as I said - on the contrary, everything is perfect ... "supposedly" .... I'm waiting for your opinions: thanks in advance.
1 DakotaCox answered
You didn't love her in the beginning. Love is a strong word and often people think they love someone. Say straight without turning around. The more you pretend, the more you hurt her. She will fall for you more and more and after a long relationship she will think that she can't do without you and some dramas happen. It is best to tell her immediately and the agony to pass. One cannot live with a person just out of compassion. Don't become a victim.