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I Don't Like Rough Sex!

By sexy_hot_show June 10, 2020 13 answers Last updated June 10, 2020

Thank God the three men I've been with have been on my course and cared what I wanted. But I don't know what is from, that rough sex is a kind of the norm. I'm not some tree, I'm not one of the aunts who spam the site with frigid themes. But NOT everyone is obliged to like rough sex just because it is popular. It's like everyone loves McDonald's, and not everyone loves it. I like all the poses, but I like slow and rhythmic movements, lots of kisses, caresses, gentle words sometimes. I hate clapping, pulling hair, offensive lines, pushing, and apologizing like I'm a labor cart, running over the body. There are a lot of chicks they love, but I think that's what you should ask at first. Talk and communicate. I like oral love a lot, to do it more than to get it, I like to end up in me and including swallow, but everything happens in a gentle and thoughtful way. What's the problem? Is your partner's legal to ask for the rudeness? I don't even mind the sex, the last friend I proposed and did, but it was so tender and beautiful. And he's given me a chance to play with his opening, but I don't want to get carried away. My point is, I don't sleep a can, I just don't want rudeness. Pulling hair has become something of the most common, but to me, my head is a very sensitive area and I hate to even have my hair touched. It's a lot sexier to be petted on my back and rub my shoulders during the act. Am I the only one?

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jesse_grey answered · June 10, 2020
I share your opinion, except for the whistles. I've never seen anything uglier and disgusting in my life. Regarding the too I am against - it will hurt, there may be ruptures, in addition, you need preliminary preparation, etc. of. And I'm not a whore, and I'm never going to be. The only nice sex is the one without perversion and. It's about sex with LOVE!
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kploks answered · June 10, 2020
It's okay. I can respect and accept what she wrote and a girl, for example, with which I come out with such views. I don't think it's rude and I'd miss it with you, especially if you have nice breasts, but there might be a middle ground and a compromise, you sound reasonable. It's OK not to like rough sex, and you don't have to have everyone being passionate about it or doing it. There are certainly guys who aren't super fans. Still, I think almost every man wants to try it sometimes and live out as a tomboy or know with a little more dominant sex, but I guess once a while, she'd let a little bit of the pace. We're not talking about pulling hair, clapping or anything else, just a little faster and sharper insertion to say. I think the majority of men would be happy with the "deal" and the terms of your sex life. Not everyone is mean for rudeness, but some want to try it sometimes. There are many men who are in your "range" of desires and conditions. Good luck and boldly ahead in sexual self-discovery!
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ersh5309 answered · June 10, 2020
You're not the only one. And I like to enjoy oral sex, and love and propose. But when one is slapped, I turn to return the gesture. So it hasn't been enough to pluck and spit.
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_sarajordan_ answered · June 10, 2020
Yes, you're the only one of the women on the planet! :))) And instead of us here, tell your partners' preferences. And for the rubs on the shoulders specifically, use a massager. The man doesn't have to offer a massage, even if you want a 2-in-1. :))))
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loxy_ answered · June 10, 2020
Hmm... take some handcuffs, and next time they ask for something more like this, offer him to yours to cuff him. When I was 17, I went to a friend- theirs was gone, so she was afraid to sit alone. It was clear what was going to happen, but not quite :) So, at some point, without realizing it, I slapped a little bit in the ass, and it hurt... or do, I don't know, you let go of a tear and it made me feel bad.... open his brother's cupboard (who worked at some SOT), and he pulls out handcuffs and yells at me - give your hands in the back... and i'm so sorry, and i'm like, "I'm going to kill you." and he's yelling at me - for hitting me, you're going to sit there, and i'm faithful to keep me up until morning "chained" /at least i'm snuggled up, my hands are numb, but if I could get over it again (and it was with her) I wouldn't miss :) So experiment, let him be "powerless", and... you don't lose :)
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lucianasweetts1 answered · June 11, 2020
People, people, people, people. For me, everything is down to mood, sometimes I prefer gentle and sensual sex, even more often I end up with slow thrusts, because in this way I feel its hardness much stronger. But sometimes I wish we could be more flanched and naughty in bed, which includes slapping, pulling for the hair, biting, spicy words. Of course, everything has to be within certain limits. In a state of arousal, mild pain is pleasant :)
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connycuisman answered · June 12, 2020
Number one, forgive me, but your opinions with the author seem very different. Your and her position are so far apart, it's not true. While you are highly enclosed and against everything unconventional in sex, the author is very open to trying and experimenting with love and expression, there is simply a pronounced exception, with which it is not OK. She shared more than one bed-breaking thing she tried or wouldn't object to and was generally available for suggestions and innovations. You're opposed to your vision of shoving a fifth on the ground, and you've gone here looking for allies in your subconscious complex, that you're a minority of "puritans", clean, who you see you don't subject yourself to the inferior squeamishness that heaven practices to please or give one to your partner. You have an opinion, yours respects it, but it's funny to me how you try to smitch the author for your canned views, as if your view is common or, to be more precise, "normal," for which the only percentage agrees. Have an opinion, be happy with him, but don't "agree" with opinions and positions that are just different from yours. Your comment begins with "share your opinion" and from there the vast majority of what is written is in disagreement with the author :D very torn position.
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clerval answered · June 12, 2020
It's not just you, honey. I'm the same. I want it to be gentle and gentle, with lots of fingertips and kisses. Honestly, I've never swallowed. No one wanted it from me. Otherwise, we're french with my husband, and we're having sex too. But everything is gentle and the experience is amazing, even though we have been married for 17 years.
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aussiesissygurl answered · June 12, 2020
You don't like it to end up on your body, but you like to swallow. For me, this is a very good compromise option ;)
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grinchita answered · June 13, 2020
I don't know... If it doesn't end in my mouth, I'il feel "failed" in my actions. I love everything with my lover! Whatever comes to mind, that's what we do. Another is the question that, because of the fashions today, every picula for which the world is exhausted with "Fifty Shades..."is made open with the declaration that it was the rough sex. Every sex has its charm, maya's in diversity. Alpha, 31 years
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hottestapplepie answered · June 13, 2020
I just didn't understand what your problem was?! You want all the other women and men to share your views on sex or what? If that's the case, get it out of your head, there's no way everyone's going to look like you and want what you want. :) You've always come across partners like you, haven't you? Something very pointless seems to me to be the subject.
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yungandhornyyyyy answered · June 13, 2020
I'm a man, and I don't like ending up in my partner's mouth and even on my partner's face, is that normal? It kind of seems degrading. And the girl wanted me to end up on her face even, honestly, she fell in my eyes a little bit. Is that how you have sex these days?
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teelaxo answered · June 14, 2020
It's a matter of taste. There are no rules in sex. I also love rough and gentle sex, depends on the moment. And the most adore they pull my hair and get spanked on my ass. Dirty words also seem very exhilarating (insults never came to, but to get there, I wouldn't be angry, it's the emotion). Other times I prefer gentle and slow sex, but less often.