I have been living with my friend in a dormitory for about two months now, but lately his friends' visits have become more frequent and when I write "they have become more frequent", I really mean that they come and stay every day for at least 6-7 hours, which worries me. because I have to comply with them all the time, and this leads to my discomfort. The right thing to do is to sit down and talk to him, but I know him and I know that talking will not lead to anything good. I even know how our relationship would most likely develop, can I have some advice? I will start work soon and these visits will not benefit me.
1 thuundeer1987 answered
Well, tell him you don't like them, that he has to consider you when to invite them. You live together and can't sit for hours and drink and party if you get up early, for example, or you don't like them coming so often. After all, every guest is money, time, you comply, you can not relax. Yes, they are his friends and he will jump to protect them, but he must comply with you. Friends are friends, but he is currently living with you. You are not his roommate, a casual acquaintance, but his beloved woman. You don't have to put up with some messing around every day and serving and cleaning them afterwards. You don't have to watch them every day just because they are his friends. For example, you agree to invite them at most twice a week, and for him to visit them. What are these friends who will spend every day for hours at the other?