Hello, everyone. My story is a little awkward. I had a serious boyfriend who I cheated on while we were fighting. That happened four years ago. My child is now 3 years old. So I can explain in detail. I loved my friend, but he was constantly getting drunk and reaching out. On October 25, 2014, I had my period. My cycle lasts four days. As soon as my period was over, I was with my friend and he ended up inside.. I do not remember exactly the date, I think it was about October 30. A few days later, we decided to split up. On November 13 or 14, I slept with my colleague on a crack because I found out my friend was cheating all the time.. But while I was having sex with my colleague, it got in trouble. When he finished the condom, he stayed inside me. I went to the bathroom straight away, peed, and so I threw out the condom. Then when I found out I was pregnant, I started to wonder if there was a possibility that I might be pregnant with my colleague. But the feeling was that it was from my friend. I told my friend I was waiting for a child from him. We're back together. he recognized the child as his own, even though he understood about my infidelity and to this day hinted that the child might not be from him. It's hard for both of us. We know DNA testing is very expensive, and we can't afford it for now. To add that the child was born on July 30, 2015. What's the chance of that from the colleague? I was back with my friend about October 30, and he ended up in there a lot. And with my colleague on 13 - 14 November foul with condoms. The child was born on July 30. I think it's from my friend because if it was from the colleague, he would have been born around August 14. Please post my story and please no insults, only serious comments. Thank you, dear people.
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livesonlovestreet answered · June 19, 2020
Take a paternity test.
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babyblaithin answered · June 19, 2020
Collect money and take a test - I just checked on the Internet - cost 600LV. This is important to dispel any doubts and occasions of pushing into your relationship. If it's your colleague's, maybe you'il split up, maybe it'il still keep your husband with you. If he's attached to the baby, what difference does it make?
As for who the father is, a relegated condom doesn't get pregnant so easily. On the other hand, it's hardest to get pregnant before and after a cycle (just when you were doing with your husband). You're more likely to be ovulating when you slept with your colleague. If your cycle is 28 days, it would be the easiest to get pregnant between the 11th and the 17th day. I can't tell.
Another way I can think of besides a test is through the blood group - an acquaintance had caught so much that he was not the father of the child, since there was no way with the combination of his and the mother to get that of the child.
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ameliavallejo_ answered · June 19, 2020
Dates are not of such importance, a test should be done
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valeri_nimf answered · June 19, 2020
Ovulation is 14 days into the cycle . There are also calculators you can calculate by conception date.
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mila_kolesnikova answered · June 19, 2020
Who does it look like visually?
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queensquirt_69 answered · June 20, 2020
Ovulation is usually 14 days after the start of the cycle. You and your friend slept on day 5 with your colleague on day 20. So, either you have a very early ovulation or a little late. If your total cycle length is longer (for example, 35 days), it is more likely to be the second. The term is calculated from the beginning of the last cycle, not from conception. And doctors are not sure when you conceived, the fetus can develop quickly, you can give birth in advance or you may be delayed. It's not an exact science.
Only a test can say for sure. But I can give you an idea. Keep an eye on your ovulation. There must be tests for this, if you don't try the service and the temperature. If it's relatively constant every month, whether it's early or late, you can eventually decide. But again, these things are shifting, and five years ago it could have been something else.
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sladki_chai answered · June 20, 2020
Do you write your dates when it comes? If you know how many days your cycles have been, I can almost certainly tell you who it's from. If it's longer 30-35 days, then it's from your colleague most likely.
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mandylandy69 answered · June 21, 2020
My cycle is 28 days. Sometimes 30.
The child can't determine for sure who he looks like. I think my mom looks like my boyfriend, too.
But according to many other people, my child has skinned. It's a girl. Both the colleague and the friend have dark brown eyes, the child too
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je_jo answered · June 21, 2020
Another fake story. You women, when will you find out that here many stories are fake and mostly coming from the same author. Are you so devoid of insight and logic that you can't recognize the author's style, and you always point out that your intuition doesn't lie to you. You believe all this nonsense. There are three or four women who immediately feel which themes are real and which are fake, and you believe everything published is the absolute truth. You're too ignorant to know.
Don't you notice how the author remembered all the dates four years ago, and she doesn't remember exactly what date she had sex with her boyfriend, but says, "I think it was July 30." I despair of your ignorance.
I ask the moderators to publish my comment.
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florenciabordet answered · June 22, 2020
12, real, and you have no way of knowing 100% that it was invented.
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bree_diana answered · June 22, 2020
When I had problems getting pregnant, I went to follow my ovulation and it turned out that I was 6-8 day after the start of the cycle, i.e. as soon as I ran out. And a friend soon told me that she was at a checkup and the doctor told her that she was currently ovulating, and she was walking a day after the cycle. So the 14-day-old one is... Solo. Can't you see the blood groups? There are tables on the Internet. For example, my husband and I are A, and both of us and our child can only be A or 0. Maybe it's not 100% sure, but it'il cost £20m.
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pr1nc3z answered · June 22, 2020
Yes, if you tell me the blood groups of the supposed fathers, the child and yours, I can tell you this or that.
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andycaulfield answered · June 23, 2020
Without a DNA test, you'il never be able to be sure. So either take a test or you'il be in the doubt for the rest of your life.
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jacoswart answered · June 23, 2020
I'm blood type A negative. The child also
It's not a fake story, and I remember the dates, and I have my papers from the hospital that says everything. By the calculations of the gynecologist, I should have been ovulated and conceived on November 8. They gave me a term on August 8, but I gave birth on July 30
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ynnelope answered · June 23, 2020
To number 14
Is 28 days your cycle?
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whisp answered · June 24, 2020
"No" is written SEPARATELY by the verb!
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magicalbarbie answered · June 24, 2020
There are quite a few combinations of blood groups, in which the result is 100%. See the inheritance table:
https://bg.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_Group
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sheshe answered · June 24, 2020
18, if you tell me the blood groups of potential fathers, or at least one, I may be able to tell you. The fact that you two are A makes things a lot easier.
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wueirjf76 answered · June 24, 2020
Author, I'm left with the belief that you're thinking about the date you had sex and on the same date after nine months a child was born?
At the time of menstruation (the days of bleeding) from the first day begins to grow a new egg, and for example on the 14th day it is fertilized after another 38 weeks is the term. That is, the term is calculated 40 weeks from the first day of menstruation. And as often happens incorrectly to be called the cycle the time of bleeding. Make a difference to these things!!! The cycle is as much an idea as it is on the moon - 28 days. Practically en masse and under 20 days to 35-40. And the bleeding time is not the duration of the cycla. When you say "i'm in a cycle" it means it's bleeding. Do not misunderstandings arise in concepts. Most women are ahead of practice, and you read and theory is not understandable.
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mysticruby94 answered · June 24, 2020
The kid's got a negative, too, the father should be! We're rare species... negative of the rezus. I doubt both (your husband and colleague) are!
Besides, you're Alpha... I'm directing you to look for more on the subject.
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hairyninked answered · June 25, 2020
You'il probably never be sure without a test.
Still, check out the group your friend is. If he does not know, there is a perfectly free way to establish it - let him donate blood. Occupation noble and useful, they will even give him a sack of chocolates and junk that and 2 days leave :-) For example, if it's In a group, it'd be doubtful that it was the father...
Then start raising money, and so... It's all clear.
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sammyhottie22 answered · June 25, 2020
22, the blood groups of potential fathers will not help the author, they may be of all four possible, and the child took hers! What if they're from the same group? Even one could be 0 and the other C and the child is still A. Only a DNA test is the solution!
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tanjia29 answered · June 25, 2020
That's how it starts. First you don't know how to spell "I don't know," then you don't know who the father of your child is.
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julywans answered · June 25, 2020
Up to 26: No more nonsense. If one parent is 0 and the other B, the child cannot be A. Where will A come from? 0 is 00, B is BB or B0. The child may be B0 or 00, i.e. B or 0.
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dexter_dick answered · June 25, 2020
Three DNA tests must be done on the child and of the two potential fathers. Currently there are promotions on the Internet, $59 is one. So for under $200, you'il know with absolute certainty.
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sueslater answered · June 26, 2020
26 educate yourself a little, and then speak. groups of potential fathers give a fairly accurate result. If one parent is 0 and the other In the child may be only 0 or C, it is not possible to be another blood group. However, a child can not inherit the exact blood type of his mother, the blood type of the child is always influenced by the blood groups of both parents. Here is a table https://bg.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_Group
Each blood group has two letters The children take one letter from both parents, and blood group A means that the author has AO, that is, her daughter took from her mother or letter A or zero.
If the daughter of the author and the author herself has blood type A is much more complicated, because it turns out that the father can be from any single blood group. Therefore, for them remains the only variant with a DNA test.
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hanny_bubupl answered · June 26, 2020
From 14. No, my cycle is even longer about 30-31 days. According to the tables, I should have ovulation on the 16th day, and she's 8th. I've been to at least five months in a row to detect it, and it's always so early.
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myanaconda4uu answered · June 26, 2020
Author, DNA test.
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keymoonasian answered · June 26, 2020
N.13 I know that the subject was invented because I know who the author is and her childbearing age has long passed a few decades ago, and she talks about four years ago. And I know who you are, you always protect her, you're from a Tim. Come on, call and your other pride to prove to me whether the subject is fictional or not. You've got a cute guy by your side, you're quietly next to him.
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samie9274 answered · June 26, 2020
A DNA test isn't that expensive. But check the blood groups first - if it turns out it's impossible to be from your friend, there's nothing to wonder about (though it'll still come to a DNA test).
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liss_andy18 answered · June 27, 2020
As I said, both my daughter and I are A negative. .
I don't know the blood groups of either of them.
In your opinion, if I got pregnant on November 13th by my colleague, the child around what date should she be born?
Can you get a secret DNA test without my friend knowing?
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zarinarai answered · June 27, 2020
Author, that's what they told you, it doesn't matter when or who you got pregnant by. Gestational weeks are counted from the first day of menstruation. And yes, between menstruation and cycle there is a huge difference.
I don't think you'il be able to take the test in secret. I guess at least it's illegal.
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thecouchcast answered · June 27, 2020
"I don't know the blood groups of either of them" - the colleague how to be, but the guy you live with and you wonder if he's the kid, why don't you know the band? Is he hiding it or waiting for another five years to find out. I think the expensive DNA test is the same scheme - it doesn't bother us, because it's expensive, but we haven't actually checked how expensive it is - we just think so.
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hairymeat2 answered · June 27, 2020
28 and 30!
Educate yourself! I know exactly what I wrote! The mother and child are A group, and in this case the father can be any of the four groups, amman of the misunderstood!
To the author, you don't know when or by whom you got pregnant, but when you're going to be born- A job of I! Maybe at the beginning of the ninth month, it might be moving, and it could be a seventh example. Why do you want a secret test???!!!! Isn't your friend's right to know his child??!
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muscleboss221 answered · June 27, 2020
Just so I'm going to say... I feel sorry for your friend.
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avarexha answered · June 28, 2020
The only way to find out who the father is is either to try to find out for yourself some common physical traits between your child, your current friend and that colleague of yours, or to ask someone else to do this, who understands at least a little of anthropology. Physical traits never lie.
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kali_kam answered · June 28, 2020
up to 41 ... the child has the same lips as mine, but her eyes are the same as my friend's big and deep-looking. . I don't know if I'm interfering, but my mother says so. .. judging by the eyes, it's from my friend, but there's always doubt. ..
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saxx9 answered · June 28, 2020
Author,
If I didn't feel sorry for you, I'd tell you that your whole story is disgusting...
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jfrenchy05 answered · June 28, 2020
You're right, N.45, that the author's "story" is disgusting. I don't feel sorry for her because she keeps writing disgusting and fictional stories on a conveer. He doesn't have any moral qualities.
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skinny_brazilian answered · June 29, 2020
45, assuming the story is true, why should it be disgusting?She slept with her colleague, given that she was free for the time being. She didn't cheat, she didn't cheat. And from unwanted pregnancy, only unrighteous sex is insured. I don't approve of such sex overnight, but I don't see her doing anything disgusting, she didn't even hide from her boyfriend that it might not be from him.
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anika87 answered · June 29, 2020
47,
Disgusting, I'd even say disgusting.
Sleeping "crack" on your friend... with my colleague... What kind of relationship is that?
At 30, my friend ended up in there a lot... at 14, my colleague ran out of... it became a foul...
Her boyfriend cheated... But is that right? However, he did not become pregnant :)))
What respect to have a man with a woman who doesn't know who she conceived from...
If the story is true, it's disgusting. I'm sorry that a woman "takes revenge" in this way. She's embarrassing herself, not anyone else.