Hello ! I am 25 years old, my husband is 38. I don't know what is happening to him and is it normal My question is to the men, but also to the women to whom it has happened. 1. We have sex on average 2 times a week !? / for me it is not enough / 2. When we do it, almost every time it decreases for a while, then we continue again, but it decreases when we change positions, etc. I don't know if I'm still arousing him and he sees in me the passionate hot woman who is driving him crazy or he's just physically calm and knows that he has me / we've been married for 1 year /. Or is there another element between us / in which I do not believe /, if he is not at work he is always at home !? .... but still ..... I'm terribly confused, I want us to be happy, but I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or I've bored him somehow or he doesn't see sex in me like before :(
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Kofti ... I know what it is, we have been with mine for 10 months / only !!!?! / But this problem exists and I am starting to feel it :( I really love him and I would not part with him, but he is is a man, like me a woman and we need sex. However, in my opinion a man should never be sure of the woman next to him, otherwise it inevitably leads to such "boredom". This is my stupid mistake :(
This is a crisis of middle age, but have you tried to break things in bed, it makes sense for you to dress more exotic or sexy to have a game in that sense, you have to light the flame again ...
A: Yes, when there is visual stimulation he is more sexually aggressive. But does that mean baths, candles, wine, sexy lingerie every time we do it? I don't know what else I have to do ???
Hello, The frequency of having sex is strictly individual and unfortunately depends on an awful lot of things. Physical, mental and emotional state, degree of seduction and a bunch of other factors that we cannot control, actively influence sexual activity. Don't underestimate the fact that every failure or semi-success (and the man knows very well when he did his job well and when he didn't) has a negative effect on his confidence every time. Unfortunately, at the age of 38, 3-4 times a week is a completely normal frequency (again, I emphasize this is strictly individual), and if we add probably a serious practice in all years after the age of 18, I think things fall into place. Sport can slightly improve results.
I don't think you're satisfying him or that he thinks you're not sexy enough anymore. Rather, it is a problem on a physical or some mental basis. Talk calmly and openly. It is good to talk about such things. You can also seek specialized help, which very often helps and triggers the problem! Good luck
It is on a mental basis. He is obviously burdened with other thoughts and fails to get rid of them during sex. And it happens to me sometimes.
It could just be GAY!
Before sex, undress very slowly and gradually. At intervals of 5-10 minutes between each garment. Stand so that he can see you naked, incl. and below the waist. When you just hug, you feel the touch, but the visual excitement is lost. In men it is much larger. You can also use mirrors to see you in front when you have your back to it, etc.
Abe, when you fuck, diversify your poses - I fuck my grandmother twice a day, because every time she comes out with different numbers ...
My boyfriend is 43, I am 26. And we have less and less sex, sometimes it's my fault. We both masturbate a lot, apart from each other. Try watching porn with him and do what those bitches there do. Make his fantasies come true, yours too. There should be nothing forbidden in sex. The more relaxed, the better.