I have been with a boy for a year and 2 months. We love each other. At least that's what I think ... or I thought. I don't know what to do anymore. I love him, but I don't think I'm happy, he hurts me and I don't feel as full and positive as I used to. He doesn't give me that much time, he goes out more with his friends and studies. We are students. He calls me to him, but for a while, we go out, but quite rarely and more often with other people. He tells me that he needs to communicate and he has to study, so do I, but it's still different. Maybe I love him more than he loves me, or maybe he's already cooling off. He soon told me that I was not doing anything for him, and I had given him everything. I have nothing more to give him. My heart and soul are his. We fight much more often. I told him it was better for both of us to break up, because our relationship is no longer healthy, but my heart is breaking, despite everything, I think he would be happier without me. He did not want to and dissuaded me, told me that I was too emotional and did not think objectively. He repeats that he loves me, but I don't know how long to believe only in words. At our last quarrel, he called me to tell me to calm down, I cried, and he laughed, as if everything seemed a joke to him. I talked to him seriously because I felt neglected, and he just laughed at me and said I was living too much. I don't know what else to do ... and he just laughed at me and said I was living too much. I don't know what else to do ... and he just laughed at me and said I was living too much. I don't know what else to do ...
1 kitty_kleo answered
I was in your situation ... My advice is to take matters into your own hands, because there are 2 ways out of the situation and it depends on you who you choose. Your first option is to continue to behave in the same way, which will inevitably lead to separation, because he will not stand you and will wonder what happened to the girl he fell in love with (this happened to me). Your second option is not to be attached to him (believe me, I know how hard it is, because you take in every action or word of his), just start leading your life, do not be constantly at hand. Go out with friends, start a job, play sports, find a hobby, whatever, just to stop you from thinking about it. I think you're so attached to your man that you're suffocating him. And when you say that you are no longer happy with him, maybe you should think carefully about whether you see your future with this person. PS Life is too good to be addicted to men.