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I Don't Know My Husband After 25 Years Of Marriage.

By nairobi_latin June 19, 2020 12 answers Last updated June 19, 2020

I soon found out that my husband was interested in his student. It was an activity for the SMS connection. They've only met three times. I believe he didn't have sex because he was really suffering from our conversations and had called friends to say how disgusted he was. I don't know why, but he's never been jealous of me. He often says I'm smarter than him and sounds sincere. It's probably complex because I'm energetic and I'm quicker to solve problems. I came across the wishes of his friend "career success and pi4." Now I'm explaining why he's having fun with jokes. Now things are fine between us, including. sex, but I ask men what's dark in their minds. I'm far from stiff, and I can playfully express myself ambiguously. I don't understand. Are all men losing their measure?

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mia_robertss answered · June 19, 2020
Hi! NOT ALL BUT I THINK 88 PER CENT OF MEN ARE THE SAME... THIS ONE, IF YOU CAN CALL IT A RELATIONSHIP, HAS HELPED TO WAKE UP YOUR FEELINGS. BECAUSE THERE'S HARDLY BEEN ANYTHING LEFT IN 25 YEARS.
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beefybearbr answered · June 19, 2020
You're very aggressive and powerful, and that's why your husband, avoiding conflict because he seems to have thought he's not going to change you, is living another life. Reading your cocky praises, you'd better come to your senses, because otherwise your husband would deserve a memorial.
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cock2cock7 answered · June 19, 2020
I don't think you're in power. Just a realist. I've been through a similar story, and it was on my side. We need diversity.
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janna_christian answered · June 19, 2020
There's another explanation. It's called a midlife crisis. The characteristic is that as they get older, men look for younger women to prove they are still being sexually abused. I think it's a temporary condition that passes away in time. The question is: after how much?
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saf1a answered · June 19, 2020
Number one, you're wrong, 88% 100% are :) Life's going on, let him experience the thrill, she'il go away and still be yours. You're a strong woman.
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phenomenalpleasures answered · June 19, 2020
In the whimsical games of fate, I found myself in a position of rematch. Actually, I fell in love with a real one, and I have a marriage proposal.
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vinborius40 answered · June 20, 2020
Be more aggressive!!! Keep him on a short bridle!!!! I know it from experience
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niceguy2134 answered · June 20, 2020
Is it worth holding someone and not being happy? Maybe you'il both be fine with other people.
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maddy_molly answered · June 20, 2020
Even now, he is genuinely remorseful for what he did, it will still happen again. I've been in your shoes, too. After a once-forgiven, such a fling came about that he was living with a gypsy at the age of seven months pregnant, and he was telling me that he was working in another city, and that was for our own good. Draw your own conclusions.
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cameronj4424 answered · June 21, 2020
The author to No9: Now she behaves (almost a year) flawlessly. I don't think there's another woman. But I've changed. I don't believe it anymore. And the conclusions, I've drawn them. But it's too late to start my life with someone else and again, because there's no calendar time. We're probably all very vicious, but we don't admit it.
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bustyeva_ answered · June 21, 2020
No one's insured to happen to him, I'd rather be alone. I was in a similar situation - but I was the other one, and if I hadn't said an end, we'd be seeing each other today. Why do you have to live with someone after there's nothing left of your relationship. Just not alone. nothing will ever be like before
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bossboy977 answered · June 21, 2020
I first read here and it turns out mature comments from responsible people. Life is not unambiguous, and prose is not compromise. Being "alone" and overpowering and getting to know each other in marriage is only possible with a strong relationship in the couple.