My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, he claims that he loves me, but things have changed a lot, he does not want to spend time alone with me and go home early, he prefers to hang out with his friend and play on computers, and he is already quite large. He doesn't want to think about the future, he doesn't want to have any responsibilities, he doesn't work, and when I want to talk about it, he tells me if I don't like leaving and that he wonders what to do tomorrow, not after years. On the other hand, I study in 2 places and I want to work now and it seems that I already want something new and different, but I can't turn my back on 3 years of my life, I'm afraid and I don't know ... what to do
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If you haven't talked about it, do it. This clarifies all misunderstandings. But for me personally, he is not old enough for family responsibilities. And a person is ready for them when he feels stability in his feelings. I don't think you want anything more from him. Let him indulge in idleness. He will feel it himself. If he didn't just don't deserve you ...