Hello, I am a 23-year-old girl. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, but we have a problem. The thing is that at the beginning of our relationship he insisted on having sex and I agreed mostly out of fear of breaking up. I thought it wouldn't weigh on me like that ... Years later, I somehow have the feeling that I can no longer have any pleasure from having sex. I do it so that he doesn't get angry with me, because if I refuse him, he immediately becomes nervous and keeps cold to me. Somehow I do everything out of necessity. But I can't stand it. I try to talk to him about how I need to not feel like an obligation and that when I feel the cold between us, when I refuse him, I don't have sex with him anymore. We do it at least 3 times a week, but it is never enough. I love him, but I don't know what to do anymore. When I try to explain to him what the problem is, he says that with these conversations he is just reluctant and I am guilty of not meeting his expectations. But I can't say that I can't feel anything anymore, because that means ruining my relationship with him. I don't know what to do even if we do it or not, I do it for him anyway ... I don't know if I could ever experience anything with this man again. But somehow I can't let him go. Please give me advice, I do not know how to act we have talked thousands of times I do not know how to act, how to save this relationship. We've been together for so long that I don't know what it would be like if we broke up, but I feel like he's not happy either. because that means ruining my relationship with him. I don't know what to do even if we do it or not, I do it for him anyway ... I don't know if I could ever experience anything with this man again. But somehow I can't let him go. Please give me advice, I do not know how to act we have talked thousands of times I do not know how to act, how to save this relationship. We've been together for so long that I don't know what it would be like if we broke up, but I feel like he's not happy either. because that means ruining my relationship with him. I don't know what to do even if we do it or not, I do it for him anyway ... I don't know if I could ever experience anything with this man again. But somehow I can't let him go. Please give me advice, I do not know how to act we have talked thousands of times I do not know how to act, how to save this relationship. We've been together for so long that I don't know what it would be like if we broke up, but I feel like he's not happy either.
1 killerb1tchhh answered
Horror, you have a terribly low libido. You are dissatisfied and he is dissatisfied. Let this man find a woman who really wants him and will love him.