M26. Years ago, my first girlfriend, whom I loved very much back then, gradually realized that she was bisexual, leaning more towards women. For months, it was just a kiss, then I realized that there was more. That's why we broke up, she broke up with me because she preferred women, but she lied to me a lot, for months. The story there is long. For many men, this is a kind of fantasy because of threesomes and fours, and I grew up watching such porn, but I realized that it would be better to keep it there. And I had sworn no more such girls, because leaving you a girl for a girl is worse in my opinion. And so we come to now, where for years without a woman I found a girl, fell in love with her and ... the same story. If you are wondering why I am in a relationship with her at all, because I understood again when I was already attached to her and loved her. However, I do not know what life has prepared for me. Will it happen again, because bisexuality and homosexuality have no cure, and she said twice that she was no longer like that, of course I don't believe it. That she and most of her friends are like that ... She is a student and for some reason she had returned to our city, where I am, but she soon returned there, again surrounded by these companies. And from what she told me, her past is not very rosy, and I don't know if she will repeat it again. And it's because of this past that I wonder if she really loves me, or I'm just until she leaves. I don't know if I should ask her about the past, about what she wanted from these women, what gender she sees later in life. I give an example, everyone thought she was studying, and she was in another city with a certain girl for weeks, supposedly partying, but this girl turned out to be, and she is from my city. And they would only have been in separate beds like Fr. given that my girlfriend liked her I do not think. 99% of men are jealous of their wives of other men, and I am mostly jealous of women. It's stupid, but it's a fact for me. These questions bother me a lot, should I talk to her freely on these topics, should I ask her? Not that he can't lie, these people very rarely tell the truth. If you have free stories, share what happened.
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Personally, I had a similar story, but from a woman's point of view. For three years I didn't understand that my boyfriend had inclinations ... of course, he was more feminine, with a feminine character, but in front of all the acquaintances who hinted at me, I denied it. And suddenly, for two days, he dropped the whole bomb, then denied it because I didn't accept it. Sex was very, very bad, and that also had to give me a signal. We broke up ... and there is no other development in which I can be happier than now. You cannot change someone, ever, under any circumstances. It is very important to have an open conversation, and to accept everything you may hear, and she must be sure that she will tell you everything. If it turns out there is no reason to cut it. You'll just have one thing in mind even when you're having coffee with friends. Many women engage in same-sex relationships, because our society is already more or less equal. A woman knows how she wants to be treated, in an attitude, in sex ... and she can give that to another woman. Whether you stay with her or someone else, you need to learn to understand the mind and body of women as much as possible, as well as to look for a woman who understands you and men in general. Sexuality and all other things do not matter much if you have true love and can be more open to the person against you than to anyone else.