I Don't Know How To Communicate!

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Hi, I'm a teenage girl, I'm 16! I want to ask you for advice because I don't know how or what to talk to people. I have a few girlfriends in your class, but we don't see each other outside of school and frankly, I don't consider them real friends - they're just not my type. I have 2-3 real friends outside of school and I can be myself with them and not care at all and we're really close. It's just that if we go to a party and they bring other friends, I'd be ashamed to talk to them - because I don't even know what to say - not say something stupid and then they're going to comment on me and say I'm super stuck - but I realize that from those worries I'm really getting more closed. I want to talk to different people, but I just don't know-how. I'm a little chubby too, and that's a lot of my self-esteem. But at times I don't have a problem meeting someone like at sea I met a guy and it was great - I wasn't worried at all that I was a chubby or anything. To tell you the truth, I don't understand what's wrong with me and why I'm like that. I want to talk to the boys and go to parties, but I know if I go to a party I'd be ashamed to dance so people wouldn't say anything. For example, being with my girlfriend, I'm not ashamed at all, and she'd never say I'm shy, but if she wants to introduce me to a friend of hers, I won't be able to say a word to her. I'm really asking the editors to publish it because I really want to find out what's wrong with me. Thank you in advance!

Last Updated
June 10, 2020
Author:
blondy135

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