Hi, I know the headline might sound strange, but it's true. I'm an 18-year-old boy, and I haven't had an affair with a girl yet. Right, I'm not the most sociable, on the contrary, too self-conscious, not going to cafes, discos. I have friends who have a long time, and sometimes it makes me feel bad watching them hugging, kissing, etc. I've tried twice, but I've both suffered a complete failure, and I've only had some more negative experiences...
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sensual_girlx answered · May 28, 2020
I don't know what it is. I'm doing 20 in 15 days and I haven't had an affair with a boy. And I'm like you, I don't go to coffee and so on.
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chitown789 answered · May 28, 2020
I read my own...
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juicykelli answered · May 28, 2020
Hi! :)
I'm a girl, also 18, and I'm just like you.
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elena_nikos_ answered · May 28, 2020
Now they're going to tell you to go out for coffee and discos and get a girlfriend, and... Forgot the gym. As they say, "This book we've already read." I am also 20 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. It's hard, but I'm getting used to it, I'm slowly starting to put up with this and getting used to loneliness.
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hardguy6969696969 answered · May 28, 2020
You don't have to go to discos and cafes. Just go where you like and be more sociable. It helps when you look attractive.
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body_desire answered · May 28, 2020
And still I can not understand the common between cafes and discos and finding a friend/girlfriend...
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bi_wasabi answered · May 29, 2020
It doesn't depend on who you are, whether you're going to cafes or discos or other places like that. These are tales from film-coated people like you. And what you're 18 or 20, or whatever you have. It's not the end of the world that you don't have boyfriends. It doesn't matter that you're not sociable. Instead of self-pity and despair that you are alone, you can at least try to find someone. If it doesn't work out, it's going to happen sometime. It takes time to find the right person.
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pumitahot01 answered · May 29, 2020
Don't think that's what this is about. I'm 20, and I'm the same. I have felt bad in those moments that you described, but everyone follows their own path in life and should not imitate the others, but be themselves. Keep up with what makes you happy and that's your passion. Here, I have a passion for football and I've traveled with vans/trains as warped in the past year, but it's worth it. The emotion that brings me this experience cannot be given to me by 20 discos, cafes, gatherings and things like that.
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asianglow0129 answered · May 29, 2020
I have found a girlfriend through the Badoo application and already almost 8 months I am super happy.. She's a great... The difference is that I have a fairly good opinion of myself.. I work, I want good money and recently I changed the Mercedes with Mazda (family car)... Raise your self-esteem you will succeed
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robzombi answered · May 30, 2020
From the author – thanks to everyone taking the time to read this! :)