Hello. As you can see from the title, I don't get along with my mother and I never got along. I get along much better with my father. Our relationship with him is great, he accepts me as a great person, we agree, but things are not going well with my mother. I do not know why. I'm a 15-year-old girl and I'm in puberty, maybe that's why my mother can't get into my situation. But she didn't even try. She never came to talk to me just like that. He doesn't care about me. When she asks me how I am, how the school is going, if there are any things I want to tell her, she doesn't tell me about herself. It sounds weird, I know, but she's unknown to me, it's a mystery. Not only do I not know her well, but I feel intrusive. Whenever I say something, it's the other way around, it's not right, I don't have to say my opinion, it starts shouting, get nervous and I leave the room quickly because I don't hear the same things. She blames me, she doesn't listen to me, she shouts at me, she doesn't accept me as a great person, I try to understand her, to talk and to behave normally with her, but it doesn't work. He always finds something to shout about and is like a time bomb. Am I annoying her? Doesn't he want me? Does he hate me I'm her only child after all, she can't help but love me ...
1 boy18_wien answered
It was as if I had read my story. I think it's best to talk to the three of you (you, your mother and your father) and clarify your problems, at least we did.