Hello! First I will ask the editors to at least approve this story and upload it to the site. Thanks in advance. I have a friend for 9 months. Our relationship was perfect from the beginning. Many of my close friends have told me that they envy our love because it was real. And so it was - it was real. From the very beginning, he made me trust him. I haven't felt as happy with anyone as I have with him. Most of all, I was afraid of losing him because I didn't have many boyfriends, but from the few I had, I was sure I had never seen a boy like him. Everything was great, but he had to go abroad. He left and everything has changed. We fought all the time because he never kept his promises. He promised to come home early, but he didn't. Apparently I felt abandoned, which I sincerely regret, for it was not his fault that he had to leave. I was angry with him because he left because of his parents - they made him. He is now an adult, but he does not stop listening to his parents, who really do not advise him anything good. I was angry that he always promised me he wouldn't leave, but he did. And my love weakened. He returned a few days ago. Of course, when I saw him I felt a shiver, but everything disappeared for a moment. I know I love him. I'm sure of it. The problem is that I don't love him like I used to. I may not love him as he deserves. I tried to break up with him, but I just don't want to hurt him. Some of you will probably tell me that if I don't love him, I shouldn't be with him and lie to him, and leave him in time. But believe me - I wouldn't leave him so as not to hurt him. We would only break up if he did something very bad or he asked for it himself. I realize it's not for me. We are too different. Our views of the world are different. I just want us to separate and everyone to continue their life. But I'm just afraid I'll be sorry later. Thanks to those who read my story. Even I don't know what advice to ask you for. I just wanted to pour out my soul somewhere.
1 domtomato answered
You will probably regret it at first, but in time you will realize that you have made the right decision, it will even make you feel better. Don't delay the separation, the sooner you do it the better for both of you! Once you've decided, just do it and talk in person, don't cut it off on the phone or Facebook. What are you afraid of in this way you are hurting yourself, besides you are hurting him because you are lying to him, tell him the truth that you want to separate.