Hello, I decided to confess to all of you. I had a relationship with a boy for almost 6 years, he is a really good boy, hardworking .. but somehow something was lame .. he has never been kind to me, for example to give me a flower or for the holidays he always gave me money , without taking a gift from me ... he was very cold to me in front of people, he didn't show his love. We decided to separate, I met another, who is the complete opposite of the first, behaves hellishly nice to me, but somehow it's not the same, as if I don't feel the same feelings .. I'm very confused, I don't know what I want from life anymore, it's coming to commit suicide, I am constantly filled with thoughts that I ruined the life of the first, because of our separation. At the same time, I think that if I give up the second one, it will be completely ruined, I'm tired of this guilt, I have always been very concerned about people and I have put others before me. I don't want anyone to suffer. I know it won't help me at all, but I just feel like I'm going crazy already, I need to share it with someone .. I apologize to everyone for bothering you with my nonsense ...
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Another proof that there is no pleasure for women. If he's not romantic -> he's cold, if he's romantic -> he's not a man. Another proof that men should not rely on only one extreme, but when it is necessary to be firm and when it is necessary to be more romantic. But this requires an experience of feeling when, what and how much is needed. Otherwise, women either get bored or start thinking that something is wrong.