First Hello everyone :))) Actually I don't know how to start ... whether straight from the question and say to myself what is on my mind or vice versa Let's start in the second way and we'll see :) First I had to say that I'm 18 years old. Everything I ever wanted from someone I got from a boy a little older than me at a time when I least expected (as always). We were happy, having fun. Everything was going well - we introduced our friends, and I introduced him to mine. It's been a while since we left, we started having sex, which was great because we both loved each other. He kept telling me when he could, how much he loved me and how much he missed me when we weren't together. There was a moment, we had been going for 3-4 months, when everything changed and after I came back from them (he is not from my city, he is a student) He couldn't even tell me personally, that he doesn't want to be with me.x ihihi It's funny when I think of the words he said to me: "Let's break up, I don't want a relationship ... I didn't say I don't love you ... I know I won't met no one like you was the only one for me. " Then he didn't even agree to go out and talk like normal people, to tell me why he really broke up with me. Then I asked my friends who saw us together if they thought she loved me (I felt she loved me, but I was deluded, obviously) they all said yes, it was obvious from the way she looked at me, but it was born and another question - why did he do that after he loved me? In fact, this is also my question ... how can someone tell you that he loves you and leave you under the pretext that he doesn't want a relationship, but emphasizes that he still loves you? If anyone can answer me, let him order, I have been trying to answer for 2 months,
1 FreesiaX answered
Maybe I'm not the person who has to explain such things to you / I'm a 40-year-old man / but I will explain things to you in terms of the experience I have. No one will ever tell you why he's leaving. At least I didn't get an explanation from any of the babes who dumped me. The reason, I think, is that people are usually ashamed of abandoning a person who loves them and rarely dare to tell him. The reason is not necessarily in you. He may just have met another, he may have really realized that you expect more from him than he is willing to give, or God knows what. Accept (as rude as it sounds to you) that love is a series of meetings and divisions, a series of happy moments and disappointments. Just at some point you will meet a person with whom you will spend the rest of your life, but believe me NO ONE CAN GIVE YOU THE RECIPE HOW TO HAPPEN THIS. Accept any separation and do not try to re-establish a relationship that has no future. Just try to look ahead. The reason is not necessarily in you. Do not stagger to extremes, but judge the person you are meeting, but remember! There are no guarantees! I wish you success if this is your first relationship just welcome in the world of the big ones.