Hello! I want to tell you about my relationship with my friend. I am 20 and he is 27. We have been together for almost 5 months. So what happened. One night I went to them and we had a good time - we talked, we laughed. Because I'm a student and I had to finish my homework. Anyway, I wrote my homework, my friend even helped me and it was late and I had to go home. He asked us to have sex (we hadn't had sex for 1 day), and I told him it was too late, I had to go home. And he began: -Oh, so if you want, I will refuse you. -Ammy, you're a man, you don't want to refuse me. -Oh means you can if you want, and I can't if I don't want to? What do you want - to look for another? The moment he said his words, I just couldn't believe he said it and slapped him. He got very angry and hit me in the face too .. I wanted to leave, I just couldn't stand watching him, I didn't want to be in his house, but he stopped me, started explaining to me how I should treat him, that I had started drooling a lot lately, started telling how and that's what happened to his ex ... and at that moment I was furious (I hate him talking to me about his exes and everything related to them and he knows very well) .. I came home a while ago and now I'm writing on this site. I want to hear opinions from both sexes. I want to know if it's my fault or he ... and what to do, because I'm so confused and I never expected this from someone who thinks he's a MAN! he started to tell how it happened to his ex ... and at that moment I was furious (I hate him talking about his exes and everything related to them and he knows very well) .. I came home a while ago and now I am writing in this site. I want to hear opinions from both sexes. I want to know if it's my fault or he ... and what to do, because I'm so confused and I never expected this from someone who thinks he's a MAN! began to tell how it happened to his ex ... and at that moment I was furious (I hate him to talk about his exes and everything related to them and he knows very well) .. I came home a while ago and now I'm writing in this site. I want to hear opinions from both sexes. I want to know if it's my fault or he ... and what to do, because I'm so confused and I never expected this from someone who thinks he's a MAN!
1 lolitagustine answered
You are both guilty. You just don't love each other and you don't fit. He who loves himself wants to be with the other in the first place. The woman in love does not refuse her lover, because she also has a desire for him, longs for intimacy and love with him. A man in love would feel the mood of his beloved and would not behave like that, let alone hit the woman he loves. But you didn't owe him anything at that point either ... You're playing with fire, because every man is stronger physically than you and this one may have controlled himself, but the next one may beat you up. Don't hit a man! This is vital for a woman, as long as not hitting a woman for men is a matter of culture and upbringing, but once you crush them, no one will lie in the hospital. Hitting someone weaker than you is a sign of weakness, but hitting someone stronger than you is a sign of insanity and is life threatening. ... I don't know you why are you together when you don't love each other, but in your place I would end such a relationship. The reasons are very deep, but now you have a reason. Leave while you still can. You are not for each other! Guilt doesn't matter, you just DON'T LOVE YOURSELF.