Hello. I will start directly. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We are young, we love each other (Or at least I love him). I have always sworn to him that he will never cheat on me. He himself has vowed not to do so, that he loves me, that he is faithful to me. Yes, but it happened. And how? With a prostitute! But it's not like everyone goes to pay and do their job, it's connected to her. Friends, lovers, they are all one. And most of all he does it for MONEY. She gives him money to have a relationship, even though she is a prostitute. How did I find out .. Secret text messages, late night calls. I pressed him and he told me "are you crazy, even if I had sex with her, will I sit down and tell you" But I'm sure he did it every next time I ask him just keep quiet and answer me with " I love you". And the most shocking thing is that he introduced me to her, to explain to me that she would not steal my husband, it's just all about money .... Can you believe it? It sounds like a fabrication, but it's true and it hurts so much. It's not ugly and ragged, on the contrary, it's quite beautiful and good-looking. I asked him how he could do it, if he didn't think about me, if he wasn't disgusted, if it was all about money. I received only one silence, nothing else. It happened that we quarreled, he immediately ran away and stayed with her all night. In the morning he comes home to me as if there is nothing. He tries to kiss me, tries to have sex with me, but I flatly refuse and he gets mad at me. We have no children, I know nothing connects me to this man. I want to go ... But I don't have the strength. I keep wondering how I will live without him. He tells me that if he leaves he will suffer but I don't believe him. I want to punish him, I want to separate, but something just stops me, I love him terribly much. But I don't know if I will stay, how our life will go on because he told me that he will continue to see her, but it won't be long. Millions of questions run through my head. I'm afraid to touch him to kiss him even though he's been abroad for years and I miss him so much. In fact, they met there. I'm just on a dead end.
1 moonpie answered
Well very clear. The prostitute fell in love with him and paid him to receive sex and attention from him. I very much doubt that if she hadn't taken out her wallet, he would have hung out with her. He's short on money and he's dating her because it's kind of a job for him. Whether you will forgive him or not, only you know and you will decide. For me, infidelity is a slightly different thing. For example, to date a prostitute because she wants sex. Or to be with a woman at all because he wants her. And as you describe things, I doubt your husband wants anything more than the babe's money.