Hi As the title suggests I have a problem with myself. I recently returned from abroad and hoped to start work immediately, but over the holidays things did not go the way I expected. I am 21, with 2 foreign languages, I graduated from sports school if it matters, I have some idea about my life and what I want to achieve. I returned to Bulgaria just before the holidays, during which time I was looking in the field of trade - I have experience and decided that it will not be something I have yet to learn. I apply in different places, but of course all related to what I have worked. Lately, however, my search has not been successful. They call me, invite me for an interview, they even approve of me, but here comes the problem. Whether out of concern or not, I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I realize that I have found what I want and need, but somehow I'm afraid to start. Like I said, I have a solid experience, I love working with people, I've never had a problem getting used to the work environment, but I don't understand now what I'm worried about. The other thing that worries me is that I'm used to being in constant motion, and lately I'm falling into a kind of lethargy. I start to shut myself in, I even gain weight, I become extremely irritable and fickle in my behavior and attitude towards others (mostly people close to me). I want to be that cheerful working girl I was a few months ago. I want to enjoy life again and achieve everything I set out to do - and it is not small at all. How to be ambitious? How can I believe in myself again and be firmly on the ground? I will be really grateful if you share your opinion and give me some advice.
1 doctrine_man answered
Go to the interviews with such an attitude that it is as if you have offers from 10 more places. Watch them from above. Pretend until it becomes a reality.