Hello. I will drive straight. I am 22 and he is 41. He has a wife and a child of 8 years. He has been like that for a long time, for the simple reason that the only conversations he has with his wife are to give her money. He says he finds everything else in me. We have been together for 4 months. I live alone. Over time, it started to hurt every time he left in the evening. I don't want to fall asleep and wake up alone. There is no one to say "good night" to, no one to hug in the morning. Actually, I have nothing. This loneliness began to weigh on me, because of which we quarrel quite often. I understand that he is coming home because of his child and I do not judge him for that. I understand that it can't be divided in two, but sometimes my nerves can't stand it. Apparently, because I keep everything to myself. Don't judge me, I know I don't belong there and I've told him many times. But he doesn't leave me. And I don't want to leave me. It also weighs on me to take it away from his child. And at the same time I want it, a lot. I do not know what to do. I tried to separate, he didn't stop calling and writing, he finally came home. His absence kills me. I see my girlfriends living with their husbands. They also think about children.
Something he won't give me. We have to hide, and I want to show it to the whole world, to show how happy I am with it. All this eats me from the inside, makes me indifferent to everything and erases my smile more and more with each passing day. We have to hide, and I want to show it to the whole world, to show how happy I am with it. All this eats me from the inside, makes me indifferent to everything and erases my smile more and more with each passing day. We have to hide, and I want to show it to the whole world, to show how happy I am with it. All this eats me from the inside, makes me indifferent to everything and erases my smile more and more with each passing day.
1 lumb3rjacking answered
4 months is a very short time to gather impressions about a person and get to know him. I don't know if you realize that he has hardly now found his true love in your face. That once the relationship with his wife is alienated, he needs sex and may lie to you that he loves you, just to get it. You are very young in his eyes and he hardly takes you seriously, he hardly thinks of taking a more serious step with you. Now it's you, then he'll find someone else and so on. He does not think of creating a new family. The fact that he is looking for you and calling you is also normal and does not mean that you are in his first place. And you are only 22 and you deserve a person, only for yourself, who will love and respect you.