And what did you expect? As the saying goes: "eat our meatballs riva". There will be no fixes. Be sure. And it is better not to, because even if you calm down now, years will pass and with each, even a slight occasion, this will come to light. And don't be tied to rumors that he will forget that he will forgive, etc. Or to the wit and "personal" experience you will get here. Just accept that you did something that can't be fixed. That you have reached a point of no return. And it no longer matters who was to blame, how, with whom, when and why. And as for the way your husband expresses himself ... it's a matter of personal culture. Maybe that's why you cheated, who knows. I'm talking to you from personal experience. I am a man and I have been in your husband's position. It took me years to fool myself that nothing irreparable had happened, but in the end things got scary. Whatever the woman was doing, it still seemed insufficient to me. And now I believe it. I just always thought that trust was like a glass - whoever breaks it first stays thirsty. And so. It's a pity about the situation, but first you think, and then your instincts, instincts, etc. Because instincts and instincts can be suppressed, and living life, relationships with people in 99% of cases get out of control. And lastly, think about it, if your husband had forgiven you sincerely and started to love you even more, how would you look at him? And in the future, won't it again ... this time because "my husband is such a weaver that ..."? It's a pity about the situation, but first you think, and then your instincts, instincts, etc. Because instincts and instincts can be suppressed, and living life, relationships with people in 99% of cases get out of control. And lastly, think about it, if your husband had forgiven you sincerely and started to love you even more, how would you look at him? And in the future, won't it again ... this time because "my husband is such a weaver that ..."? It's a pity about the situation, but first you think, and then your instincts, instincts, etc. Because instincts and instincts can be suppressed, and living life, relationships with people in 99% of cases get out of control. And lastly, think about it, if your husband had forgiven you sincerely and started to love you even more, how would you look at him? And in the future, won't it again ... this time because "my husband is such a weaver that ..."?
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It's your fault. Infidelity is a great sin. To cheat means that you do not respect the person next to you. Talk and solve the problem.